Getting out of self

This weekend I spent hanging with this guy T, who I dated years ago, and his son J, who I adore - I have so much in common with the boy.  We swam under the full moon and used the jacuzzi and watched movies and went to eat and stuff. It was fun. I spent the night out with them.  T is in the process of separating from his addict GF which he's struggled with and it's not healthy for the boy.  So no, It's not ideal.  But I am using my tools to not try to solve his problems yet I am doing some personal assistance stuff and I am able to use his car, which has been pretty interesting.  I get to pick up J from school and hopefully help him with math homework. I got laid off, after another guy got laid off and I cried feeling sorry for him!  For me, I was ok with it - I am collecting unemployment benefits, and supposedly the lay off will be for a month or two - we'll see.  Take it one day at a time.  Trusting God helps. :)