Getting enough of DS!
I have tried and tried not to take insults and name calling personally. I have watched two of my friends on here self destruct. I have read journals of women on here who are unable to forgive their husbands for infidility.Today when one of my friends accused me of being nosey hurt very deeply more than she will ever know! I have been here for her and have not pushed at all. I have been supportive every time she needed me to be there. I have shared more personal info with her than anyone in hopes of helping her to heal. Your words hurt!I can relate to vicitms of rape. I have been there. I know not to put myself in that position ever again. I thought I could help!I have resolved that maybe I am not strong enough to take the insults and name calling.I came here to seek comfort for infidility. It's not working.I will work on things as I see fit.
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im so sorry kathy- people do say hurtful things, esp when they are feeling vulnerable, in order to push us back so they can protect themselves. I know you have nothing but honorable intentions, and you have such a kind compassionate heart. But we do have to protect ourselves too, and keep a kind of arms length distance as we try to provide support, so that we are not too emotionally hurt by what we see and hear happening to the people we have come to care about.. I have been right where you are, and it hurts. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know that you are deeply cared about here; the words of one cannot override the love of many. Take heart, dear woman. We stand with you.
you are a very sweet caring person. but you need to take care of yourself too. message me if you need to talk. love and hugs, meg