get the divorce done
HI all. I haven't been on here much lately - once school starts time just flies again. But I occasionally ready some journals and responses and am constantly encouraged by you all.
My hold-up now is that I want the divorce to just happen. I am tired of initiating, pushing, hand-holding, etc. I just want it to be done. I want my finances to be figured out and I want my house to myself - he still walks in whenever he needs to. Anyway - anyone want to come and file for me? haha. I seem to be stuck here - and yes I definitely want the divorce. Any encouragement?
My hold-up now is that I want the divorce to just happen. I am tired of initiating, pushing, hand-holding, etc. I just want it to be done. I want my finances to be figured out and I want my house to myself - he still walks in whenever he needs to. Anyway - anyone want to come and file for me? haha. I seem to be stuck here - and yes I definitely want the divorce. Any encouragement?
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Cathleen, I apologize for the delay in responding to your Journal. It\'s been crazy around here for weeks and then the DS server was being \"migrated\" over this past weekend (whatever the Hell THAT means) and I was unable to respond to you.
NO ONE is going to come out there and file for divorce for you and I often wonder what stands in the way of taking that action! Only YOU can take the first forward step into your future!
My Dad had a saying that I forever keep in mind. That was: \"If you wake up one morning and find yourself in a pile of shit, you have two choices. You can either sit there in that pile of shit feeling sorry for yourself OR you can get up and get out of it!\"
REMEMBER: It may not be your fault that you are sitting in that pile of shit, but it IS YOUR FAULT if you STAY THERE!
So, lIke they say in the Nike commercials -- \"JUST DO IT!\"