General Update

Our toddler room is finally full, so there will be nolayoffs in the immediate future. This is good newswith Christmas around the corner. For the mostpart I have a live and let live attitude with those around me, I have drastically reduced the numberof things that will upset me or worry me and thishas resulted in alot more peace coming my way. The people who still can get to me and upset meare my husband and my middle son. Now a dayswhat upsets me about my husband is when I feelignored and am worn down by stress then I getangry and we get into an angruement. This happensless and less as I let go of judgement and unforgivenessand stop personalizing so many things. We are gettingalong better than we ever did. What sets me off aboutmy middle son is his tendency towards hurting his littlebrother, sometimes it is as a result of carelessness andsometimes out of anger. In these situations I becomeenraged and we get into bad agruements which resultin both of us feeling upset. In this situation I feel I needto be more aware of what is going down between themand making my presence know and redirecting him intoappropriate behaviour. I did this yesterday with good results.My goal with my middle son is achieve a more positive relationship between us where my love for him can betterbe expressed. It will be quite a challenge but I know I willachieve it, peace and love to everyone, big hugs, Ida.