Gender stuff update whatevers
HEY EVERYONE IM VERY HAPPY RN WOOHOO THIS IS A GREAT FEELING
SO
update i guess
I didn't come out with my gender identity to EVERYONE, but I confirmed it with my parents, told them all the specifics and stuff just to clear things up. They already know I'm gender fluid, although they don't exactly get the definition that well. They also know I like girls, but they think I'm lesbian, even though I'm actually pan. So yeah, it's okay though, they get the whole deal that I'm queer in one way or another.
SO
I told them I prefer they/them pronouns, which they have trouble figuring out how to use so they still use female pronouns, but I said that's alright, since they've used those pronouns for the entirety of my life.
They agreed to let me get a binder which I am so happy about, like I can't stop thinking about it now. Like to actually be able to pass as a dude makes me so jittery and just d;ladf;ladkjfaldf... agh. so excited.
They also agreed to let me cut my hair short, but a style that can still look feminine, as on school days (for me, Monday and Wednesday) I have to present myself as a female in order to look good for school, stay safe, and all that jazz. BUT ANYWAY I can wear my binder and guy clothes and stuff to most things other than school. So that's awesome. There's an upcoming school dance within my homeschool community, so I plan on wearing a suit and get all dude like. I'm SUPER excited for all this. Now to just find a cute hairstyle...
I plan on going suit shopping with my bestie Camryn, as he also needs a suit for the dance, and for our upcoming prom.
So yeah, general update n stuff. Rant of enthusiasm over. Hopefully I stay happy for a while cuz happy is such an amazing feeling my goodness.
okie i'll update stuff later, so ttyl everyone
-M
SO
update i guess
I didn't come out with my gender identity to EVERYONE, but I confirmed it with my parents, told them all the specifics and stuff just to clear things up. They already know I'm gender fluid, although they don't exactly get the definition that well. They also know I like girls, but they think I'm lesbian, even though I'm actually pan. So yeah, it's okay though, they get the whole deal that I'm queer in one way or another.
SO
I told them I prefer they/them pronouns, which they have trouble figuring out how to use so they still use female pronouns, but I said that's alright, since they've used those pronouns for the entirety of my life.
They agreed to let me get a binder which I am so happy about, like I can't stop thinking about it now. Like to actually be able to pass as a dude makes me so jittery and just d;ladf;ladkjfaldf... agh. so excited.
They also agreed to let me cut my hair short, but a style that can still look feminine, as on school days (for me, Monday and Wednesday) I have to present myself as a female in order to look good for school, stay safe, and all that jazz. BUT ANYWAY I can wear my binder and guy clothes and stuff to most things other than school. So that's awesome. There's an upcoming school dance within my homeschool community, so I plan on wearing a suit and get all dude like. I'm SUPER excited for all this. Now to just find a cute hairstyle...
I plan on going suit shopping with my bestie Camryn, as he also needs a suit for the dance, and for our upcoming prom.
So yeah, general update n stuff. Rant of enthusiasm over. Hopefully I stay happy for a while cuz happy is such an amazing feeling my goodness.
okie i'll update stuff later, so ttyl everyone
-M
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Congrats, bro! I\'m glad they\'re being so supportive of you. :) My bestie is the same way, they go by they/them pronouns and identify as pansexual, so I know it can be hard trying to get others to accept that (my sister flat-out refuses to use they/them pronouns because it\'s \"grammatically incorrect\" and a lot of people just don\'t take it seriously). But best of luck to you and rock out that suit at the dance--I\'m sure you\'ll look fantastic. Have a great day!