GEMS

I just had my first argument with my oldest daughter in 13 years. It is frustrating that she does not understand my worries and concerns. I remember when i was her age raising four kids alone like she is now. The risks are so much higher and those willing to help are just as much in need as those that need. My daughter is a slob in her home. i know i have to let things be but its hard to see her that way. she works 8 hours a day and cares for her children but a slob? i don't get it. why, i guess it could be worse. i just wonder if i am co-dependent. i just really frustrated.