Gained weight and still no AF!!!!
Well when i went to the DR on the 15th i got weighed and gained 4.5 pounds in 2 weeks really what the hell is going on im so freaking frustrated and to top it of i already new my blood test was negative and my DR called me today to tell me again and said if in ten-fifteen days if dont start AF she wants to give me some pills to start it i really think im pregnant i cant fit my jeans my boobs now fall out of my damn bra and they are already a 34DD i have a belly and people are asking me how far along i am. I know it would be to early to show but im so bloated and gassy it sucks! i cant sleep on my tummy cause it makes me sick in the middle of the night. I am having these night mares that i wake up in a panic crying and have no idea whats going on!!! I have so much discharge my undies feel like i peed but i know i didnt. (sorry if tmi) i have to go to the bathroom twice in an hour. AF will be due in 9 to 10 days the 29th what do i do if it doesnt come?? Me and my husband think im not going to take the pills to start my period cause we really think im pregnant im so regullar that my husband knows what day each month i start and how long AF is. What would you do im so emotional its crazy i think i cry everyday and stupid t.v.!! Would anyone take the pill or just wait and see what happens??? please help!!
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Id get a second opinion if you dont trust your doctors first opinion. It never hurts to have another opinion. good luck =)
I agree with xotinks. I would get a second opinion. You know your body. Keep your hopes up hun. I\'m here if you need to talk.
How far along would you be at this point? Has your doctor done an ultrasound on you? Even if a gestational sac would be too small to see, it seems to me something is going on inside you and it\'s worth a peek to see if there is any change in your uterine lining, etc.
The physical changes you are experiencing can be explained by pregnancy symptoms and a delayed period. My concern is that you\'re not feeling heard by your doctor. Are you scared s/he\'s misdiagnosed you (i.e. missed the pregnancy) and is going to give you this med and cause a miscarriage? Then tell her ... tell her that regardless of what the tests are telling you, you would feel more comfortable waiting it out to allow your body the opportunity to jump-start your cycle normally if indeed you are not pregnant. You are not helpless here, sweetie. You can tell the doctor what you would prefer to do and you can refuse the medication she\'s offering, especially if the medication isn\'t necessary anyway. Call your doctor and let s/he know where you stand. If they don\'t listen to you or offer reasons you think are unreasonable - find a physician via one of your friends and see them. However, I think if you explain your worries to your doc, s/he won\'t push anything on you that you\'re not ready to do.
I would ask for an ultrasound though. Just seems like a natural step in this process.
Thinking of you.