Fun & Drama
Last night went out with my girlfriends for Cinco De Mayo.. We went bar-hopping downtown & had a blast.. It felt really good to be out socializing with people my age..
Now for the venting part.. My brother is deployed for the first time and his wife is completely miserable about it. All she ever does is complain. I understand how she feels so I've been inviting her everywhere I go because she has no friends (which is her fault cuz she stopped talking to them when she got with my bro). I invited her to come with me & the girsl for Cinco De Mayo and even my mom told her she should go have some fun instead of moping around. Not like she's gonna flirt with guys in front of me right? She declined and went on to tell my brother that I invited her out. I dont know what all she told him but he got on facebook and started ranting and raving about how ppl are trying to destroy his marriage by inviting his wife out. He said he has a rule that shes not allowed to go out while hes gone. So I text her & told her no one is trying to destroy anything and she needs to watch what she says to my brother cuz she stresses him out while hes deployed & thats not good or safe. Now they both write on facebook how people are trying to ruin everything and ppl are haters. They are obviously talking about me and my mom. I've been nothing but nice to this girl & now I feel like shes trying to turn my brother against me by making me look bad & making herself look good. UGH its so frustrating. I'm tyring to just not say anymore about it and let it blow over, but they keep making these comments on fb and I just want to slap her. I deactivated my page so I wont have to see it. I'm done with her.. All I've been trying to do is keep her busy so she wont get depressed. Cant believe shes making it look like I'm trying to ruin her relationship. I would never want my brother to go through a divorce. I have no reason or motive to sabatoge anything.
Now for the venting part.. My brother is deployed for the first time and his wife is completely miserable about it. All she ever does is complain. I understand how she feels so I've been inviting her everywhere I go because she has no friends (which is her fault cuz she stopped talking to them when she got with my bro). I invited her to come with me & the girsl for Cinco De Mayo and even my mom told her she should go have some fun instead of moping around. Not like she's gonna flirt with guys in front of me right? She declined and went on to tell my brother that I invited her out. I dont know what all she told him but he got on facebook and started ranting and raving about how ppl are trying to destroy his marriage by inviting his wife out. He said he has a rule that shes not allowed to go out while hes gone. So I text her & told her no one is trying to destroy anything and she needs to watch what she says to my brother cuz she stresses him out while hes deployed & thats not good or safe. Now they both write on facebook how people are trying to ruin everything and ppl are haters. They are obviously talking about me and my mom. I've been nothing but nice to this girl & now I feel like shes trying to turn my brother against me by making me look bad & making herself look good. UGH its so frustrating. I'm tyring to just not say anymore about it and let it blow over, but they keep making these comments on fb and I just want to slap her. I deactivated my page so I wont have to see it. I'm done with her.. All I've been trying to do is keep her busy so she wont get depressed. Cant believe shes making it look like I'm trying to ruin her relationship. I would never want my brother to go through a divorce. I have no reason or motive to sabatoge anything.
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