Fucking Titles, lemme just write
Welltoday is the day I broke Ty's heart. We waited 3 weeks in between having sex. Because I had had my fix for a week, then we went out of town to visit family for a week, and then we got home.. Still sexless. Last night I get my chance to have him dominate me.. play with me, please me. We get into bed.. and he bores me so bad, I fake it for him in the rare times I made noise. So today he comes home from work. I dont feel like talking much... I go into my room and sit on the bed, he follows me in He goes to sit next to me me- I wouldnt sit there unless you want a wet asshim- oh! Was that us? me- no /laugh nohim- Thats from you?me- Yes I had some fun today, me and my little buddyhim- oh, so last night wasnt good for youme- I took care of it todayhim- so do you want a round 2?me- for what?him- so I can redeem myselfme- oh. No, Im good for nowhim- Oh, ok then. me- Im hungry *walks off* Maybe there's an easier way to tell your man he doesnt sexually satisfy you, but if there is a way, I don't know it. So Im feeling great, from the orgasms I gave myself, but bad.. because now Im thinking how he must feel... What should I do?
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Its like that everytime?? Has he ever satisfied u?? Tell him what u like, what feels good, what spot to get, guide him. Men r dumb sometimes, they dont realize that we women need more attention than they do. Let him watch u w ur toy. Maybe that\'ll get him going. Try explaining to him that u would like to help him help u. If that doesnt work, then i dont know from there.
Let me know.
hugs & love
Cathy
When you get into bed....TALK. Tell him exactly what you are wanting, and how he should do it....not in a bossy way, but a playful,happy way. They do not automatically know what we like or want.
And from my experience, they LOVE it when we tell them how, and where, etc.
have you told him you want him to dominate you...play with you...
Tell him you will show him exactly how to get you off, because he wants to very much I\'m sure.
sweetness and understanding...coupled with a VERY naughty girl in the bedroom is a GREAT combination.
good luck hon. {{{{{hugs}}}}}
hhhmmm some people know how to enjoy sex n make sure their partner enjoys it too , that\'s what I do.
I play feel my partner everywhere she allows me to go, and while I\'M touching her I CAN FEEL WHAT SHE LIKES , I could tell if a woman was faking it.
these people are right about him you have to talk to him,teach him what you like.
I first had sex at 12 years old, but at 14 and 15 I had sex with a 32 year old lady.I learned alot from her, wow! she was great!
it sounds as if you might be on different levels sexually, he doesn\'t see it as important as you do apparentley, to be honest.. it probably doesn\'t bother him to much that you satisfied yourself... you have to remember that the way you think of something, is most likely not the way he does.
Ive tried telling him, Ive tried showing him... but it lasts that one night, and then goes away... And when I try to show him... he pulls my hand away from my body, and says and I quote \"you dont need to do that, we\'re about to have sex\" Poor thing just DOES NOT GET IT
When he gets home from work, be in the bedroom, naughty nighty on, have ur TOY next to u. Tell him ur ready & he needs to sit there & watch u but NO touching. Then turn it on & turn urself on, dollars to donuts, he\'ll be right there w u, after u orgasm, then tell him its round 2 for u & he can join in this time.
Only a thought.
love ya
Cathy
Hmm interesting idea. Wonder if it would work.... See, part of the problem is.. he only wants sex at a specific time, in a specific place.... ERG. He wants it in the bedroom about 20 minutes before he normally goes to sleep.. La. I think just broke him, and need a replacement... Just thinking.. I love him. Dearly. But I am too young to suffer through horrible sex for the rest of my long life.
I hear ya hun. I call my hub *fuddy duddy hubby* but i love him w all i got. WE\'re a Saturday night couple but its been well over 3 months sense last we had sex. I take care of his needs tho, when he asks.
Try the toy thing, if nothing else, its sexciting for U, having him just watch. It is for me anyhow, but im a pervette. lmao
/laughs... I need something to make a breakthrough with him.
Maybe while hes doing oral on u, have him use the toy also. Its a well known fact that 75% of women cant orgasm by sex (penetration) only. Need clit stimulation & most times sex cant do that.
I have a site ill send u. i have it saved in my mail.
He doesnt do oral on me. :-(
HUGS
Hmmm.... why not? He must at least try to learn...that would help! Do you know why he doesn\'t do oral on you ? IO mean it must be a 2 way street . Sounds like he needs to open his mind and expand his\"horizons\"?
Maybe try some \"movies\" about what you think he should know and then have him follow along. I also think you should let him have a \"bird\'s eye view\" while you are using \"your buddy\". Hopefully he can learn ?
Also you may try ummm how should I put this...um I guess you would say \"doggie style\" while you use your lil friend as well and let him feel what it is like when you orgasm??? Trust me ... my ex-hubby loved that!! I hope I have helped and given you some more ideas.... just sounds like her is possibly a bit timid and needs to loosen up?
Good luck hon!
He thinks he knows everything there is to know about pleasing me, and wont let me teach him. Im finally just... done. Im ready to give up.
oh deer, he\'s lucky you haven\'t gone penis hunting yet, or have you?