frieends and life

ok look my "best friends" ally and Jessica are fighting with another one of my friends Phil and i called ally today to see if she wanted to hang out but she wasn't home then she called me back and started yelling at me because i was talking to Jessica on the phone last night until like 2:30 am and she says she wants to get off the phone and go to bed so i say ok i was going to go smoke a cigaret with Phil and now Jessica and ally are pissed at me but i think if anyone should be pissed off it should be because ally and Jessica hacked my MySpace and posted ebullitions and sent email that almost got me jumped like two days before so now they think i should not even care about what they did to me and that i should be mad at Phil even though all he did was tell her to leave him alone because she thinks she might be pregnant with his kid and was threatening to tell his gf that he was cheating even though it could be several peoples kid and the kept sending him email so he called the cops last night and now I'm stuck in the middle of everything and even though i try to stay out of it all I'm somehow the ass hole in it all so someone tell me what i did to make me the ass hole???? please