Frank Abignale Jr.

I watched a youtube vid w/ Frank Abignale Jr speaking. It was actually an hour long and it was awesome. Of course, Ive been fascinated w/ his life ever since the movie w/ Tom Hanks and Leo DiCaprio / two of my fav actors... but it was very very interesting.



I think I am going to take his advice and no longer carry a debit card. He said it is the most destructive thing ever handed to the American consumer. He said to always pay w/ a credit card. Period. That alone will alleviate 99.9percent of your money from being stolen.


So me and hubby talked a little bit about it and I asked him if we could protect our monies better if we used Discover... and he said we would get cash back on that. I think it is worth doing. I will have to change my system of finances, but that's ok. While I am making all these changes, might as well do this one too.


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I talked again to hubby about his FIT yesterday in front of Anna. I told him that I am very close to leaving.... until I see some change. He said he was going to get counseling to find out WHY he does not have any confidence, why he is jealous and a procrastinator and why he can't make decisions. It's destroying US in small bites... One bite at a time. And he knows I'm no longer putting up with it.


So we will see. I will be gone most of next week any ways.. so we will see what he decides to do about it. BC I told him NO MORE FITS... I can't take them any more and I'm even tired of the apologies.


So there... so ... I told him I would sue him for 13 years of his retirement and for half of the house and move on with my life.... that i don't want to but that i know how and i can work from anywhere w/ Vipkid inc and as a housesitter ... rent free... I can do that. I do have options. But his abusive fits.. I won't try to figure them out any more. He will have to figure it out ... 

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JeanCarlin
JeanCarlin

Best of luck with getting your hubby to change, I hope he does seek counseling .
Ladybug7
Ladybug7

Frank Abagnale definitely has an interesting past! I totally agree with his advice about debit cards. Hubby and I never use them.

I hope that your hubby does seek counseling. I grew up in that type of environment, and it was extremely traumatic. I'm sorry you're going through that and glad to hear you have a plan if he doesn't follow through on getting help.