FML day
Well things just keep happening here that just adds more stress to our life.
Hubby went downstairs and found a heck of a mess that he ended up cleaning up. When I tried to talk to the kids about the mess they got defensive. Hubby had sent a message of his own that I didn't know. So yep.....a big fight has broken out and now the kids are not allowed to move back in the house.
Now I am not overly worried about the big kids..there are 2 of them, as much as I am the granddaughter that is not 2 months old yet. She is my main concern. I had to text and tell the kids since they bit the hand that feeds them once too often, they were not allowed to move back in here. I feel bad but hubby is right to a point.
The sad thing is that none of the 3...hubby, son, son's gf, can get along. All they want to do is fight about crap instead of trying to reach a peaceful decision. I try to play peace maker and all it gets me is stuck int he middle and having to choose between ones I love.
Then my son calls and goes off on me, after they commented about how lazy my husband is. Let's see....hubby works a 40 hour a week job and tries to help me out around the house. He is involved with different groups that do good things for kids and the community. Yeah...he is really lazy!! NOT!!! Son and his gf do not work, don't even half way try to find work,etc. and etc we are suppose to support them. They can't even keep their own living space clean and yet we are to give them respect and feed them, etc for free!!! I told son it is time he grew up and found a job and gave up the video games!
Then on top of this, hubby's youngest calls wanting us to find her an eye doctor down where she lives!!!!!!! Hubby tired but finally just told her to call the number on the back of the card and ask them for a list of names of doctors. This is after she kept calling off and on all last night as she had gone tot he ER. Yes she did have something wrong granted but you would have thought she was dying and on her death bed.
Oh course, the oldest daughter called yesterday to throw in her two cents worth and that got granddaughter going yesterday. Just what we didn't need! She called and then barely talked to grand daughter who was crushed.
Now all of this stress is just what I don't need but apparently no one here gives a rat's ass about that aspect of things. I am to the point of tears and yet I can't really afford to cry.
I know if I hold it in, my chest will just start aching and hurting which isn't good either. I just can't freaking win today.
so like I said, it is a FML kind of day for me.
Hubby went downstairs and found a heck of a mess that he ended up cleaning up. When I tried to talk to the kids about the mess they got defensive. Hubby had sent a message of his own that I didn't know. So yep.....a big fight has broken out and now the kids are not allowed to move back in the house.
Now I am not overly worried about the big kids..there are 2 of them, as much as I am the granddaughter that is not 2 months old yet. She is my main concern. I had to text and tell the kids since they bit the hand that feeds them once too often, they were not allowed to move back in here. I feel bad but hubby is right to a point.
The sad thing is that none of the 3...hubby, son, son's gf, can get along. All they want to do is fight about crap instead of trying to reach a peaceful decision. I try to play peace maker and all it gets me is stuck int he middle and having to choose between ones I love.
Then my son calls and goes off on me, after they commented about how lazy my husband is. Let's see....hubby works a 40 hour a week job and tries to help me out around the house. He is involved with different groups that do good things for kids and the community. Yeah...he is really lazy!! NOT!!! Son and his gf do not work, don't even half way try to find work,etc. and etc we are suppose to support them. They can't even keep their own living space clean and yet we are to give them respect and feed them, etc for free!!! I told son it is time he grew up and found a job and gave up the video games!
Then on top of this, hubby's youngest calls wanting us to find her an eye doctor down where she lives!!!!!!! Hubby tired but finally just told her to call the number on the back of the card and ask them for a list of names of doctors. This is after she kept calling off and on all last night as she had gone tot he ER. Yes she did have something wrong granted but you would have thought she was dying and on her death bed.
Oh course, the oldest daughter called yesterday to throw in her two cents worth and that got granddaughter going yesterday. Just what we didn't need! She called and then barely talked to grand daughter who was crushed.
Now all of this stress is just what I don't need but apparently no one here gives a rat's ass about that aspect of things. I am to the point of tears and yet I can't really afford to cry.
I know if I hold it in, my chest will just start aching and hurting which isn't good either. I just can't freaking win today.
so like I said, it is a FML kind of day for me.
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