First visit in Prison

This past Sunday was my first visit with my son since he was transferred to Wasco State Prison. I hadn't seen or talked to him since he transferred there in February. It was only an hour and a half drive and very little traffic. The processing to get in and see him went as well as can be expected. That took maybe an hour or so. I think people try to be considerate of each other because they know they could lose visitation and we're all in this together. I knew I was going to visit him through glass but will be happy when that's over with. He looks good and I was relieved for that. He and his cellie get along OK and he has written me to say thank you for the books I've been sending Joshua because he gets to read them too. He has been in for quite awhile and won't be getting out any time soon. He's trying to school Joshua and keep him out of trouble but I'm not naive, it's prison! I've listened to lots of stories from a close family member who has been a CO for a long time. Of course that's coming from him and not an inmate.
 
 

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deleted_user
deleted_user

Hi Westie. Can I ask why your son choose Wasco? Was/is that closer for you since you are on the Central Coast?

I am in Northern CA and am the primary support person for a friend who is in a protective custody unit in California Institute for Men. It opened a year and a half ago after being a reception center. There are lots of SOs there, and he seems pretty happy and he feels safe, which makes me sleep better at night.

Glad to hear your finally got to go for a visit. It means so much to these guys to get visitors, although I know it is also a reminder that they are \"stuck\" and cannot go home with you ...

Take care and keep feeling better. I believe it is our job on the outside to do the best we can, to live our lives with joy and love.

Good wishes always!
Suchaslife
Suchaslife

Good to hear that you sawe him and that his ok!
Those visits wont last for ever and it will be even better when you can give him a hug!