I have been looking for a support group for some time now I hope this site will fit my needs and that I may be able to help someone esle. I will need help getting to know this site.
My daughter is a drug addict and the biofather is as well in and out of prison. When I first took my boys from my daughter and paid for her to go to a 2year rehab I thought I would just have my boys till she got well this is my first experience with a addict. Boy was I naive. I am raising my gc as my own I call them my boys my sons the oldest calls me grams because that\'s what I was first the youngest calls me mommy which just can natural because I have had him since he was 2months old. I supervised all visits between my boys and my daughter until a week ago. She caused a scene on Easter and the next day I find out she is back on drugs I thought it for a while now but had no proof and she is a pro passing the over the counter drug test I just stop buying them. I am in the process of moving the visits to a program
it has been 4 months since I have seen my daughter and it has been nice to now have the drama I do not miss it a bit. My ex (her father) ask me weekly if I have heard from her I tell him no it just cant believe that she doesnt try. I guess I knew all along that she was just using seeing the boys to get to eat wash her clothes and play mom for a few hours. When she couldnt come her for the suprived visits she did have a need to see them. It is and always been about her not them. She is missing out on what live is all about.
It has been a long time since I came to this site. I don\'t know why I stopped coming. I guess maybe I thought I didn\'t need it any more but that couldn\'t be futher from the truth. I think I just didn\'t want to feel any more. Since I was on last my daughter has been kicked out of two more places moved in with some guy been to jail twice in less then 30 days. Nothing has changed in 5 years except her address and the man she is sleeping with. Next year we will be adopting the boys with our tax return. I can\'t wait. I have closed the door on my daughter.
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My daughter is a drug addict and the biofather is as well in and out of prison. When I first took my boys from my daughter and paid for her to go to a 2year rehab I thought I would just have my boys till she got well this is my first experience with a addict. Boy was I naive. I am raising my gc as my own I call them my boys my sons the oldest calls me grams because that\'s what I was first the youngest calls me mommy which just can natural because I have had him since he was 2months old. I supervised all visits between my boys and my daughter until a week ago. She caused a scene on Easter and the next day I find out she is back on drugs I thought it for a while now but had no proof and she is a pro passing the over the counter drug test I just stop buying them. I am in the process of moving the visits to a program
it has been 4 months since I have seen my daughter and it has been nice to now have the drama I do not miss it a bit. My ex (her father) ask me weekly if I have heard from her I tell him no it just cant believe that she doesnt try. I guess I knew all along that she was just using seeing the boys to get to eat wash her clothes and play mom for a few hours. When she couldnt come her for the suprived visits she did have a need to see them. It is and always been about her not them. She is missing out on what live is all about.
It has been a long time since I came to this site. I don\'t know why I stopped coming. I guess maybe I thought I didn\'t need it any more but that couldn\'t be futher from the truth. I think I just didn\'t want to feel any more. Since I was on last my daughter has been kicked out of two more places moved in with some guy been to jail twice in less then 30 days. Nothing has changed in 5 years except her address and the man she is sleeping with. Next year we will be adopting the boys with our tax return. I can\'t wait. I have closed the door on my daughter.