First time on here

Hey everyone.  My name is Julie. So, this is my first time posting on a support group ever. I decided to join a couple of these on here because I am hoping to find, obviously, some support from people who might be able to relate somewhat.  I have separated from my husband of 11 years (together for 14 1/2 though) and we are in the process of a divorce. Not only has my life changed in that I don't have my spouse/best friend anymore, but I also had nowhere else to go but move across country to Utah with my parents.  I hate living in my parents' house (and my older always-unemployed brother) at this point in my life. I made the terrible mistake of having an affair with an older man and this is where it got me. Biggest mistake and regret of my life.  I am feeling so lonely in a new town and my family doesn't even try to understand what I'm going through. The only good thing I have is that I found a veterinary assistant job pretty soon after I moved here.  That, and I have one out of three of my cats with me for love and cuddles.  Anyway, just wanted to give a brief overview to my problems right now! I hope to meet some wonderful people on here to talk to. Thanks for reading.