Finally moving forward!

Since I started over at day one of my sobriety over this time I finally feel like I truly understand what it me and to be sober in my CODA program. I have finally said no to my BF when he wanted something he didn't need. I didn't feel guilty about it either and he didn't stop loving me. I also feel like I can speak my mind without fear of loosing him.
I have made it through Step 1 with my sponsor and I am finally feeling like my life is less unmanageable. I never thought the day would come that I would move past step 1, but I feel ready to do step 2. Slow and steady wins the race.