Fighting with this question
I am struggling and some of that is from my relationship. I feel like I am the only one putting effort into the realtionship sometimes. Tristan doesnt tell me anything and this morning I got told something that just hurt, and I feel lied to.
Tristan doesnt tell me whats going on in his life unless its football. I dont know how he is feeling, like he isnt open with me.
Last night he was acting really weird on the phone and I told him that I noticed and he just kept brishing it off. But he would mumble stuff and then when I asked what he said he would said "nothing".
This morning Erica told me that he is moving away to where all his actual friends are because his mo thinks he has no friends here. But he does that to himself and he pushed everone away and he is rude to them and he lies to them. I asked him about it and he said it isnt true. Ill send the screenshot. But A couple weeks ago he brought up him moving and I asked him if it was something that might actually happen and he said no, its just something I was specualting about.
(Jenn is his mom)
But the question is should I break up with him? My friends think I should. I think i should but then there is a part of me that says no dont do it, but im miserable right now
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Trust and communication is so important in a relationship.
It sounds like he's not being upfront with you. Like he's blowing off what your asking him.
I dont know if I would break up. But I would definitely want to be told the truth. And some answers.
Good Luck.
Love ya xoxo
Might tell him to put you in the loop or you'll satelite. Don't break up yet. Make him chose by involving you. Don't give him another chance after this. Hes been flaky lately, so it's on him if he don't want you that much.
Okay
We're here for you. <3
Love you.
Communication is really important in a relationship. If you think you are not getting that then you would probably be happier with someone else. Just a thought based on my own experience.
That is my thought too but I am gonna try to fix it.
We all love you Shy <3
As a guy myself he sounds like he just dont want to tell you. We're pretty simple really. We just say it. If hes not moving or whatever then hes not. If he says don't worry about it then there's nothing wrong with it. Just chill and relax. Hes not going anywhere.
yeah well its over. with him it wasnt just "dont worry abt it"