Fighting Again

So once again my mom and i are at odds. I took a nap for awhile and then i woke up and i come out of my room and i see my moms door is closed , and the only reason it would be closed is when shes asleep so i know what she is doing.... smoking. My mom knows how important it is to me that she quits and it doesnt matter how little because it starts out that way but then soon its more and more. I dont think my mom loves me enough to quit, there are other ways to deal with being upset, i think talking to your kids for one, or friends or even a counselor, keeping busy would take her mind off things but no she rather smoke. Everytime i talk to her about it she'll turn it around and make me feel guilty so i can see that its okay. I'm never going to think its okay.Its how i feel, i've been around it and its not healthy. I've tried to make my father stop but hes never going to ,and i know for a fact i cant stop my friends, i think i have a good shot at stopping my mom. I think this issue is going to destroy the relationship with my mom. I'm never going to stop trying but i can only do so much to help. I've been in clubs in high school and grade school and i was told to do everything i can to help so thats what i'm going to do even if it means ending up in a big argument. I wont give up.