Fiancé of a sex offender
hello new to the group met my fiancé 19 years ago high school sweethearts we broke up for 9 years and reconnected when we did I found out he was in prison for internet sting in which he had no ideal what was happening long story short I love my fiancé n we r planning on getting married while he’s incarcerated I’m sure it’s a lot of pro n cons once he comes home cause I have 4 kids 2 of which will be grown be that time my fiancé is a gentle loving man n would never look at child porn or touch a child I just need advice or what to do to help our lives be prepared
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How long is your man in for? You need to find out if there will be any restrictions on him regarding your younger children.
His release date is 10/2022 we are hoping before then n how would I find out his restrictions n if we married will that stop him as well I just need help knowing everything
If you plan on staying with him...find out everything about the law and restrictions regarding your state and county. He may not know until he’s closer to release his restrictions, as they don’t tell them much when on the inside. It’s wonderful that you want to support him, but keep in mind the children you still have at home. My son will no be allowed to move back home for 6-12 months once he’s released. He has 4 children..2 of which are still at home. I believe once he is off parole., the restrictions will lift some, but then probation kicks in. One step...one day at a time. See what community support is available for SO who are trying to make transition from prison to community. We have one in our area that is Christian based and who have helped 500 men during their transition.. They helped with housing, employment and reconciliation to their loved ones. I was told..there is light at the end of the tunnel...but you might have to walk thru som BS cause they will be part of the system for awhile. I was also told that if our men/women do what they have to do...the PO,s will back off after a while. Hang in there haganlove..stay strong...you are not alone. I pray always for our families...God bless.
Thank u so much for your support I’m in the process of getting his judgment n sentence document so I can no excatly what we have to do again I’ll be in touch n thank u soo much
... It’s not an easy journey, but we can do this. Do not isolate, but educate yourselves. If you plan on staying with the one you love...then hold on and see how you can grow and learn. Be strong ... don’t give into fear! Blessing
I’m to strong minded to give up I love him dearly n could never turn my back on him this is one of the reasons I’m seeking help cause I wanna no all the ropes restrictions n laws about it my fiancé is still numb n wants to wait close till he is home to no things but not me I wanna be prepared n ready thank u so much for the support
I too am the same way...I don’t want any surprises. I want to know what we are looking at. It’s good to know we don’t walk alone. God bless.
Blessings to u and your family