FET cancelled :(
Well, my lining was only a 6.5. UGH. Cancelled. Which actually I am OK with. I think all along I knew that it wasn't going to be great. Also, when the RE was checking my lining, he said he saw some abnormalities and wouldn't be surprised if I had a polup in there, which could be the reason why my lining sucks. So, I wait for AF, which should be here in a few days then I schedule the D&C so that he can see what is going on inside. I really wish I would have done the D&C sooner, but oh well. I REALLY hope that the D&C gives me some sort of an answer, whether it be good or bad.
So, the question is, do I do the FET in October, which means no traying naturally as I will have to be on BCP's in September or do I wait until next year? I'm sort of sick of all the shots and pills (see last post) and would love a long break. DH wants to try again in October no matter what. I want to wait to see what the D&C shows. If it was a polup and it was removed and things look OK, I thought that we could maybe try naturally for a few months and start off the new year with the FET. But, I could be convinced to do this in October.
So, looks like I get to enjoy my vacation in Cabo in September and all the other fun things planned. Which is nice, but I really wish this would have been our month.
Hope you all have a great weekend :)
So, the question is, do I do the FET in October, which means no traying naturally as I will have to be on BCP's in September or do I wait until next year? I'm sort of sick of all the shots and pills (see last post) and would love a long break. DH wants to try again in October no matter what. I want to wait to see what the D&C shows. If it was a polup and it was removed and things look OK, I thought that we could maybe try naturally for a few months and start off the new year with the FET. But, I could be convinced to do this in October.
So, looks like I get to enjoy my vacation in Cabo in September and all the other fun things planned. Which is nice, but I really wish this would have been our month.
Hope you all have a great weekend :)
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Sorry to hear about your cancellation but better to save the embies for the best environment possible :)
That sucks, I\'m so sorry. As for moving forward, you have to go with your gut. It sounds like you\'re trying to talk yourself into October, but make sure you\'re comfortable with it and not doing it for everyone else\'s sake.
GGGGRRRR - So sorry that it didn\'t work out but I\'m glad you have a good attitude (or at least as good an attitude as you can have). Take a couple days to think it over, get the D&C over with and then maybe revisit the convo with hubby. kDeezy is right, do what works for you, sometimes it just takes a little time to sort it all out and know what is the right answer.
That sucks! Stupid lining! I think do not make any decisions until you know what your D&C finds then do what you feel most comfortable with. Enjoy your vacation in Cabo! I am so jealous!
Sorry that it was cancelled,ughhh..so frustrating when you have no control over these things! I think a Cabo trip is exactly what you need. I\'m so tired of all these meds too, I feel like taking time off of TTC is so much better for me. Whichever date you pick, I\'ll be rooting for you!
Definitely wait for the D&C. More information makes for better decisions. After that, if you feel like it would be best for your mental health to take some time off from treatments, do it! There is a reason you feel that way. We took a few months off earlier this year and it was the best decision. It gave me time to just re-balance myself and be \'normal\' for a while. Sounds like your DH may put pressure on to move forward in October, but if you aren\'t up for it, make your feelings known. He\'s not the one who has to go through all of the crazy. He may change his mind when he realizes he\'ll have to deal with a crazy wife, as my DH puts it. :)
I\'m so sorry to hear this, but you are handling this well that\'s for sure! I\'m glad your doing the D & C to get \"cleaned\" out. I understand the wanting to take a break, I just took a break from May until now and it was fantastic and very needed! I now feel very ready to do this again, but really go with your instincts. Mine are telling me I am ready now, but I was not ready these last three months so I get the boat you are in. Maybe make the decision after your D & C. Cabo will be great in helping you I am sure, vacation is wonderful for the mind, body and soul! Hope you have a good weekend and do something nice for yourself! xo
I sent you a hug before I read our journal. I am glad that they cancelled this cycle for you considering he found an abnormality, but not glad that you were soooo excited and now this. I would be so very sad if they had wasted your beautiful embryos in anything than a less perfect environment. As far as when to try again, you need to do what\'s best for you guys. Don\'t let anybody sway you. However, I wonder if your lining is great enough, if October would be good so you can get those embies in as soon after D & C as possible...maybe i\'tll be a better sticking environment from being freshly scraped? I dunno, just a thought. I too am sooo jealous for your Cabo vaca!! Dig them toes in the sand while drinking something fruity for me!!
I\'m so sorry!i say go forward in October. July is a great month to have a baby! And I agree with Nellysgirl - try right after the D&C maybe.
Sorry to hear about the cancellation. Hope the D&C gives you some answers and I would definitely try for october.
Super suck, sorry you had to cancel!! XO
So sorry it\'s cancelled but I guest it\'s better this way if they need to fix something first. I say wait and see with the timing but I know with my lining issues my RE always wants me trying asap after surgery because it increases my chances of succes.
I\'m sure your vaca will do you lots of good.
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So sorry!
So sorry you had to cancel. As far as knowing when to try again..I always welcomed a nice break as I could clear my head and regroup. I always felt like I needed it. I think you will know once you get your results back. Enjoy that vacation, sounds amazing!
I\'m so sorry your FET was canceled! Our bodies seem like sometimes they just don\'t like us, huh?
Before deciding on FET in OCT or Jan see what the D&C reveals.
Praying for you, friend!