feeling ok

I am feeling ok today therapy yesterday helps it always does.  she makes me feel better because she keeps reinforcing that it has nothing to do with me what he does.  Its his addiction and he chooses to do this.  It has nothing to do with what I do or don't do.  Its something in himself that he is lacking that makes him do all his chatting and looking for these women to make him feel better.  He lacks something that he needs fulfilled and I have nothing to do with that.  these women validate him and that is what he is looking for.  these women that he chats with tell him how wonderful he is and they may tell him their problems he helps them and that makes him feel great.  Me telling him that he is great does not cut it he needs the constant validation that he can get from anonymous women.  Its an addiction like a drug would be and the more he does it the more he needs.  He has taken himself away from the family long before I caught him. He cannot have a normal relationship since he will always need to do what he is doing.  This I already know because he has been doing it for 10 yrs and it has progressively gotten worse like any addiction would.