Feeling Stronger.....Thanks to All of You....
I had a pretty low weekend well actually a pretty low week. Now that week is over and thanks to all the LOVE and SUPPORT I got from all my friends here on DS I made it through. Guess I was fooling myself to think I wasn't going to have low's. 23 years of memories and what I thought my life was going to be just hit me this week for some reason. I know I have to accept the life I planned with him is over and learn how to keep going. I just feel ripped off all the broken promises and dreams he told me would come true. LIES!!!!! I WORKED MY ASS OFF FOR NOTHING IT SEEMS LIKE. I know some of these things will fade but maybe some won't. I seem to be stuck in Limbo not moving forward or backwards just not moving. I want to move ahead but PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE... I need to learn Patience .....Thanks all of you who helped me this week end. My sister's in STRENGTH AND LOVE.................................................
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Just put one foot in front of the other, one day we will reach the other side!! Have a great week.
Isn\'t that what friends are for - to be there for you through thick and thin!!!
Glad if anything we said can help.
It does help to know there are others who can understand your pain and struggles.
Be strong, you are an amazing woman, and don\'t you ever doubt it!!!!
Take each day one day at a time. Take each feeling, one at a time, and yes, be patient, caring, and gentle with yourself. Take care.
The hardest part is letting go of the dreams you planned with him. I had a tough time with that myself until I realized I could still do the things I had planned; it just wouldn\'t be with him.
Sending hugs your way.
Hurtin is right - you can still have those things, it just won\'t be with him. I know it\'s hard, and it hurts for all of your dreams and plans to go down the toilet. But time will heal, and life will bring you much new happiness. I hope this week is better for you. (Hugs for you)
You still have all the dreams and hope for the future, they just decided to take a breather and come back a bit later than planned. Doll, you can do anything you want and there is nothing to stop you from doing it