feeling guilty
tuesday;1133pm uk timelately i know i am being unfair to everyone at work .generally not my usual self.most of the time quiet,or i snap...and i left everyone wondering and just allowing them to understand me even if they don't know what is happening.and i ended up feeling bad and guilty but i couldn't tell and trust them.and now i'm feeling frustrated and wantng to leave work too because of that but i don't know how because i love this place(i mean the town),i like the shifts that i have......and so i am trap...
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You need to look after yourself and just do what you need to do. If people understand, thats great, but if they dont bad luck!
I had issues at work with my boss because I am generally outgoing, always laughing and joking etc. But I was really quiet after my mum died. He was really offhand with me - and looking back now, he was only reflecting what he was getting off me! But he had a go at me one day so I said to him \" I am going to act as I want and feel like acting. I am not here to please you, or anyone else. I am doing my job and really thats all that matters!\" That snapped him out of it.
We dont need to pretend to be something we are not.
Things will improve for you slowly. Just take it easy sweetheart!
love from
Sam
xoxoxox