Feeling Completely Alone
So today Hubby printed off all the divorce paperwork.. He is now backing out on his original child support and wanting to put that he will pay $29/month for her support.. He can't understand why I am not ok with this.. its not about the money granted diapers here are $34.99 a box and he thinks $29 a month will help support her.. I feel completely alone in this.. he claims he wants the divorce because he "knows" I cheated.. which never happened.. I have to start from square one with a baby now.. I can't work without childcare and i can't afford Childcare without work.. not only that but if he's being this heartless I'm scared to death he's going to try and take my daughter from me.. I have been told by others including this affair girl that she has now left germany and is living in florida waiting for my husband to come there so that they can raise their children together.. go figure and that is where my husband has been planning to move ne ways and Im supposed to believe he's not going to take my child just to please this women... This is just not fair where is his Karma.. he has the affair he leaves me to support myself while he lives in Germany with the mistress and Im the one losing in the end how is this fair at all.. I just want to scream.. I wish she wasn't his then I wouldn't have to have him in my life forever..
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I am so sorry hun. I totally wish that since he thinks his support should only be $29 a month that you could say, never mind, no thanks and take him off her birth certificate and never have to deal with him again! Typically child support is a percentage of what you make and all of your assets so the court is going to make him pay more and will side with you, not him. Its very rare that dad gets awarded custody when the mom is anything but a drug addict and drunk. And you are not, so the chances of him being able to take her, are very slim. I know money is really tight, but it would be worth talking to a family law lawyer. Some will do consults free and you may be able to find one that will make you pay minimal to nothing.
Do you have any family that could help you out?
Thinking of you!
Thanks Hun I wish I could take him off too.. And not here in the states
$29?! That\'s insane!
ur telling me a box of diapers or wipes costs more then that