feel so alone today

im really having a hard time today,our daughter went to stay with her cousin about half hours drive away.who lives around the corner to my sister in laws were my husband has been staying since he left us last week (again).I know i sound selfish but at the moment i hate being alone and i worry that they will brainwash her against me,yes i know i sound pathetic but i dont think he has told his family all that went on a couple of weeks ago and they seem to think im over us and getting on with my life.something else im sure hes told them.I just dont want them to say anything that is going to upset our daughter and i hope the tramp dosent come down to visit him or our daughter will be pushed into meeting her even though she dosent want to yet.

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I hope she doesn\'t get forced into meeting her either! That\'s not the right way to go about it anyway - very unfair to your daughter to be put in that situation. My ex did that to my 20 yr. old daughter and she is still fuming about it months later. Her dad is constantly trying to get our kids into these situations where his \"new\" family are involved. He doesn\'t get it. They want to spend time with him \"alone\" sometimes and not be dragged into this. they will be ready when they are ready, if you know what I mean. So sorry you are going through this. I can relate. I often feel that way when I\'m alone without my children.