Feel like I'm reaching my breaking point

I just don't know what to do. My husband and I have been married almost 11 months and things are just going downhill. He has a dominant controlling personality which I could deal with because the things he wanted to control were minor and I couldn't have cared less about them.  Now however looking back I feel like slowly he has consumed my voice and who I am. Everything has to be done his way and if and when he says. We have totally different outlooks and morals. It seems as if he thinks he is better than everyone around him and he is the one to judge them and decide how I will view and treat them. When we first got together I was in counseling and my counselor told me that eventually one of us would need to step back and allow the other to make decisions instead of fighting for control all the time. I feel that I stepped back to far and now I am loosing myself. I try to talk to him about how I feel and he refuses to listen to me. He won't even acknowledge the way I feel about anything he just says I am being respectful to him. I don't want to quit on us but I am not even heard.