fed br's colony (only two show up at the most) and the woman across the street broke into his yard

the whacko that lives across the street from br let herself into his yard AGAIN!!  she is a busybody and he says to ignore her.  she is always drunk.  she is the one that is a former real estate agent.  we are feeding TWO animals (the others keep disappearing and he has gone through this for about fifteen years with the whacko bothering him).  she lets herself INTO HIS YARD and says to me, do you have a license to feed colonies.  i say to her we don't feed colonies.  she says you need a license to feed and trap colonies.  its br's private property, he can trap on his own property.  we are getting them fixed anyway, so why complain and WHAT IS SHE DOING on his property?  this is the second time. 
she says she called some rescue group that is supposed to cover that area and they are keeping an eye.  she tells me in the two years i have fed for br's colony "suddenly" there is cats there.  hmmmm.  SHE called me two years ago to help with stray cats.  br called me two years ago to help with their stray cats.  BOTH STATED there are cats there that need fixing.  br fixed around five or ten animals already and we adopted out ten of his kittens from there.  and this whacko woman is complaining?  she doesn't help at all and doesn't do any charity work at all, and she is complaining.  then she says she gave out br's ADDRESS and let them know he is not home four months out of the year.  to be honest i think she is up to something.  we were robbed on the mainland AND at the beach by the group that she called.  and now that i am by br's house during the day sometimes, i have caught her TWO TIMES in about one month on his private property.  WHACKO.
she is very pale and very nervous as she is speaking to me.  i tell her br called and told me she called him.  she gets all shaky.  i then call him to let him know what is happening and call her again to relay what he is saying.   her words are slurred over the phone and i can barely understand her.  WHAT AN ASSHOLE.  back when his wife was alive and his wife was feeding, his wife had CANCER and this same jerk across the street was harrassing his wife for feeding animals.  who the hell harrasses people who are dying from cancer?   i am STUNNED.  its never the animals that make people stop doing rescue, its always asshole humans that piss people off and if you stop doing rescue because of them, then you are letting them win.  but as you age you have high blood pressure and can't handle stress.  closure is best, and br's sister used to work for the irs, ditto with pm.  so a couple of phones calls to make to handle this another way and "keep her busy".
br says to ignore her, but the other day she was waiting in the shadows of br's DRIVEWAY by the garage.  i said to him, WHY IN THE SHADOWS and not in the light?  verrrry weird.  i can't stand her.  i'm not a fan of drunks anyway.  i party myself but not like that.  she's a real drunk.  he says her boyfriend of 15 years and herself, NEVER GO OUT and he thinks that is why she is such a busybody and so obnoxious.  i KNOW she watches us from her door when we head out somewhere and sometimes she slams her door.  what is that about?  lol.   i told him last year that i think its her trapping his animals because EVERY YEAR he has animals missing.   i still think she is doing something.  i call people who bring animals to the kill shelters murderers and i said this to her.  i don't see a difference between a human animal and a cat or dog animal.   you can tell it scared her.  i said to her an eye for an eye.  murder is murder.  doesn't matter what kind of animal it is.  
i told her to film me if she wants, all i do is feed his animals for him.  i also told br to let his sister know because she used to work for the irs, one good turn deserves another.  
-- if you put in ten years with the irs you get a full pension.  good to know.--
i've been trying to get his striped cat in a carrier to fix that one as well.  she scared him away today.  wonder if i should punch her in the nose next time, whoops.  brawl at br's.  but if i'm kickboxing in br's backyard, its not my fault if someone breaks into his yard and gets in the middle of it.   
every time one of these assholes shows up, i'm stunned.  here it is again.  br has been through all this before, but i know he wouldn't want to deal with it.  stuff like this also makes a lot of people stop feeding strays.  wouldn't mind knocking this woman out.  seriously.  makes me start wishing very bad things at her.

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JoyceMarilyn
JoyceMarilyn

Breathe, breathe...don\'t let the wacko get under your skin! Do like I do when I see my neighbor peeking at me...wave to her! They jump back...too funny!
deleted_user
deleted_user

Hi, I love the above. She would be too shocked....she does sound like a wacko to me. I hope you will be able to trap that cat for fixing. Have a awesome weekend. Raining here.
vinlin
vinlin

That neighbor has nothing better to do. Like joyce said, wave to her when she is peeking at ya. lol I think it\'s great what ya all are doing and I would help if I was there. Have a good weekend!
38lbs
38lbs

thank you friends! really needed that vent! xxoo
KneeDeep
KneeDeep

Neighbor woman sounds awful. Too much free time and too much drinking.
Sometimes people look for ways/people to take their anger out on. Sounds like this is what is happening with this woman.
glad your getting the cats fixed,and feeding them..You and br are doing a wonderful/loving act so try not to let this woman\'s anger affect you hon. Hugs xoxo
DarlaC
DarlaC

It really saddens me to hear about people making it hard on other folks who are trying to help animals. People are just as vicious to others who are trying to help children!! It\'s appalling! I think they are missing a part of their soul!! Alcohol is not substitute for a life. I think this woman may just be angry that you people are doing good for the world and she is drinking!! If at all possible, I would avoid confrontations with her. If she is on BR\'s property in a drunken state, you are within your right\'s to call the police. You are doing nothing wrong, and this woman is harrassing you!! I don\'t like to see trouble, but I don\'t like to see good people get stopped from doing their animal friends justice, while ugly souled people are trying to stop them.

I think we all like the idea of waving at her. It seems that it would be embarrasing enough to make her back off a bit.

So sorry you have to deal with this when you are doing such wonderful work!!!
79pounds
79pounds

i am wondering if this is also a form of bullying? didn\'t even occur to me until right now. i\'m going to look it up.

... and then the worms start creeping out of the woodwork. i soooo hate drama! br says that last time we went to a restaurant, before he left for st. louis, mary tried to invite herself along. i don\'t even remember this. he laughs and he says, i even talked to her on my own cell phone.

he says the only reason we didn\'t get saddled with mary is because we had planned to go to one restaurant and instead we went to a different one. he also thinks mary was tresspassing into his yard, when he and i would hang out in the back den watching tv and one time she even walked into the yard when we were sitting around back there joking and laughing, and she called him aside to talk to him. hmmmm talk about what? we don\'t know her. this is getting whacko.

she says the reason she wanted to crash at a restaurant with us is because people from this other rescue group wanted to meet us at the restaurant. if they are the people from the another rescue group who broke into my houses in 2004, 2005, 2008 and 2009, i wouldn\'t be seated anywhere near them anyway. how about put them in prison instead?

this really is sick. and i totally hate drama. i still think the irs is the answer to this.