Feb 2008

From: Christine Schmucker <>Subject: RE: To: Date: Monday, February 11, 2008, 5:52 PMIn my family, we have been married for 3 and a half years and the sex thing, well, it never got off the ground to start with. Before we were married, we fooled around a little bit, however, the intercourse didn't come until we were married (after 4 and a half years of dating!)  In the beginning, sex was a fascination because it was new, we tried some positions and things, but nothing too out of the ordinary. I found that I just didn't prefer to have sex with him and I even was trying to make it faster to get it over with, especially since I was never really satisfied. Whenever we would try to talk about what to do to make it better, he would just say " I like you" and not much more. After having my daughter, I prolonged not having sex with him for a long time, before I finally gave in. It just became more and more spread out after that. After a couple medications that really took away my sex drive for a year, he really would be weird about things, saying that I should do it just to make him feel good and it just turned me off further and further. A few months ago I finally got rid of the meds, and now my sex drive is coming back (so excited) but there is too much emotional and psychological damage to really enjoy anything from the same boring sex I had with him.