Fear of Rejection
I have this very strong fear of rejection I cling to anybody that will show me attention. So I go in this cycle, I meet somebody that likes me I don't really like them but, I go out with them because I think that nobody else likes me so I might as well go ahead and date them and, its better to be with somebody than nobody. Then after a wile they pick up that I don't really love them so they pull away and I start to freak out because I don't want to be alone. I don't know how to break the cycle I want to be with somebody, but I feel like I can't get what I want, so I have to settle for what I can get. If anybody can help please send me a message
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I find it is better to grow myself then be with someone Im not that interested in. I have to love me before I can love somebody else. Your not alone hunny. You have great friends here for you and you remember...Your father is always beside you with your brother carrying you all the way.
keep on looking, you\'ll find the right person. I eventually did. He was right under my nose and I didn\'t realize it at first. It took a while for me to get past his looks.