Family Relationships
I sit here at home and think about why I have nobody in my family I can talk to about the sexual harassment I went through. My mom and I fight a lot. On Monday I was helping her outside. I was drilling a scew into a board and the drill slipped. It didn't hit my mom. But that made her mad so she hit me or at least attempted to hit me. I ran off In woods and scrapped my knee on a thorn bush. She also has threatened me several times to kick me out of the house. She lets me do stuff but scares me when she gets mad. I would tell my dad about it but he works a lot. So the only family I have to talk to is my boyfriend. Why can't I have a normal relationship with my parents? All I want is attention.
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My situation was similar to yours, and I\'m sorry that this is the case for you. It\'s hard when you\'re going through things, and you don\'t have your parents at your side to guide you and support you. Unfortunately, not everyone is cut out to be parents. I found a lot of comfort and support from my friends\' parents- they played a more important and supportive role.
And, on another note, you\'re 17. In one year, you will be free to move out and go where ever you wish- you could choose a college anywhere in the state, or even out of state. You and a friend could rent an apartment together, just so you have a place of your own.
I think I\'ll end up living with them for 4-5 more years. Unless things get so bad I move out before then. I want to cry now.
At least you won\'t be there forever, but that doesn\'t help in the mean time. Sounds like mom has issues that need to be addressed before she loses her relationship with you if she hasn\'t already.
woohooo you too. I had that with child abuse when she actually did it, you know the abuse routine and hen we find other abused kids. I mean you know I had a genome fault, but I couldn\'t even tell her I was her daughter quite honestly we couldn\'t go shopping get heels makeup blouses and all that, like I do with my other sister. but yea she had to start with her god didn\'t she ? now we find the other concealment so what was she doing that with them for blaming me claiming \"godddd\" said. yea I got thrown out this that wrecked the kitchen when I complained of sexual abuse etc, all me me me, yyea she gets mad and goes into this nutcase mode yea one of her ministr friends was watching me crying sitting on the floor and went back and went nothing happened, you toooo ???????????? they are like that aren\'t they ?