My daughter sent me an email to "check out her facebook", so I responded - and it created a facebook for me. Now II am in touch with almost all of my former in-laws. Kind of weird, that, but I'm not worried about it. I had a conversatiion with one of my former sister-in-laws, who listed me as part of her extended family, and it was rather pleasant. Unfortunately, my ex is also listed, as is his 3rd wife. (I was his 2nd). So, my niece, nephew, 3 former sister-in-laws, and one of my girl's former foster mothers are listed as my friends on this website. I don't know if this is a good thing, because the breakup was really nasty and it took years for me to recover (emotionally and financially), and some of them were rather nasty during it all. The ones I communicated with, however, were not some of the ones who were. Things have been going well with the girl, and I'm not having the same trouble with my days off, which outnumber my working days, where I pace around or watch things on tv rather than trying to accomplish things. I guess I'm feeling better, but I do still have this faint feeling of impending doom in the background. I have alot of work to do on my house this spring, and I really hope that I (and my finances) are up to it.
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