Extremely Frustrated by Friends BFN\'s!!!!
I am so relieved that I was lucky enough to find the DS website. There are so many amazing women here from all walks of life, with different experiences, and who have taken different paths and we all have one thing in common; IF. The women here are supportive on all levels by responding the various posts whether it is an inquiry about a medication, a rant, and the validation that we are not alone in this journey/struggle. However, one thing that is very difficult with this process is when these women that you grow to love and care about suffer a miscarriage or receive a BFN!!!! Today has been such a struggle as there have been at least 3 BFN's and I know that each one of these women has been "the model patient!" You can feel the pain in their post and see the tears streaming down their face. You wish you could reach out and hug each one, take away some small piece of the pain or at least take a small break from it. Well, I feel better just having written the above and will continue my rant in my own head. Congrats to all of the women who have received the BPF's and to those who did not, I am sending prayers, hugs, luck, baby dust, love and well wishes your way... Good night.
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I know exactly what you mean, you just wish you could make it all happen for everyone!! All we can do is continue with thoughts and prayers and hope the dream comes true really soon!
I couldn\'t agree more, it is very hard to see other peoples losses. Its so unfair. But I thank God for these wonderful friends, and all the support that we get everyday. I hope that you are one of the lucky ones that gets a BFP this time.
I don\'t know what I would do without this place. It truly has given me strength and everyone I have met on DS really deserves to their dreams come true. Ithurts my heart to see these really great strong women heart broken and devastated by IF, but when I see that someone has good news or a BFP it really lifts my spirits, it gives me hope and it\'s an inspiration to keep on keeping on!
Feel the same....I go through the hurt myself w/ each DS friend that gets a BFP. This is when they need us most and I am so glad to find you wonderful women...it gets me through this as many family/friends don\'t truly understand.
Ooops, I meant a BFN! I\'m estatic when they get a BFP:)