Exly Trickle Down

With the PTSD forum off my Newsfeed for now, I feel a bit freer to sort and process the psychopations I have been experiencing over the STBX trickle down. To my current senses, ^it^ is mostly a feminine phenom and easily avoided in my world. Men and non-traditional women don't take on the victim role easily and spotting a group of women bashing their exes is as easy as spotting evangelists working a street corner. Avoidance was easy enough before my youngest son and GKs got caught in the waltz. Even there, I am mostly seeing the trickle-down effects. The poor, abused mother in this equation is still a closed door to me. I just the monster-in-law. The ex-talk in the PTSD forum has been rushing to fill the information void of what *might* be the logic/dialog behind the closed door. Is she the only innocent victim in this equation? It sure feels like it under the influence of this particular transferrence. The rest of us get profiled as abusers. Yes, the rest of us talk about ^it^, but it is a much quieter conversation. 

Yup. I definitely need the internet ex-wives' talk off my newsfeed. Whatever the similarities, the mother of my grandchildren will be easier to understand if I keep it strictly personal. She is not any of the ex-hopping women on the internet. At least, that's my prayer and I'm sticking to it for now.

Sorting. . .