Exausted but LOVING IT!!!!!

I have been so busy school starts in just a few days. Classrooms look AWESOME, Teachers have all their lessons planned, Everything is clean and new. After such an intense week of trainings, seminars, lectures, and room set ups our most WONDERFUL boss has decided to take us all the a resort on Sunday for lunch and cocktails by the pool. I can't wait!!!!! It will be nice to relax and chill wit my coworkers for a few until all our students return.
Well yesterday was the final signing of our Divorce papers and I must say I HIT A HOME RUN!!!! He tried to argue every little detail but I stood up and didn't let him get away with shit. After awhile he realized that any attempt to argue was wasted because he was going to lose. He agreed to Sole Legal Custody, Sole Physical Custody he just wants his visitations and I did a good job splitting up Holidays. The other issue he tried to get out of was paying my spousal support. He wanted it stopped if I meet someone and move in with them. I said ok if when you meet someone and move in with her I can then use her income as part of yours and get more support. It's kind of a double edge sword it goes both ways. In the end he said never mind I will keep paying until she gets re married. There were a few more things here and there like taxes who claims Austin he said she can claim him every year since he lives with her most of the time.
So everything went my way and I thought I would be a little happier but i'm just feeling kind of DONE. Ya know that feeling of whatever I just don't want to care about it anymore. Then on the car ride home he text me telling me how amazing I looked and how beautiful I am and how could he le me go. Then he said maybe in the future we will realize we just wasted alot of money and time. I didn't respond but I did think about why he said that 10 minutes after we signed our papers???

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MsTerey
MsTerey

I am glad that it went well and you are ok. It is emotional no matter how it goes! It takes so long and then it is a big whew! Do not let the texts or the maybe we will get back together again talk..start, not the first time I have heard that, my ex did a similar and as he moved out twice and came back, I would not hear a thing about it, I said this is it! AND glad your lawyer and you did not cave to any co-habitation agreements.. it is really a non co-habit attachment and in most states considered archaic and controling. My ex tried that too... but not in this state! All maintenance or alimony stops in any state if you remarry! I know you and your son will thrive and I am glad you have things to look forward to... saw somewhere that you may get a TA job and that would be wonderful for you.I wish you the very best DMom! A hug
KRKing911
KRKing911

Excellent! Good for you honey! You are amazing and will continue to be....New life here you come.
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deleted_user

You did a great job handling everything and standing up for yourself. There will be more a lot more home runs in your future! : )
VectorForward
VectorForward

I\'m so glad everything worked out so well for you especially with your son\'s custody and visitation. Smooth sailing ahead for you!

I agree with MsTerey regarding his text...you may get together in the future; you may not, but I would just ignore it and get on with your life. Your hubby probably feels remorse and sad too but you are where you are today because of him. When everything initially blew up for me, my BIL told me not to listen to a word HE says; HE is totally irrational. He was right and I haven\'t detected a change to date. Hugs and may things continue to go your way!
antaresmom
antaresmom

Congrats on a job well done.....Have fun on sunday.