Exausted but LOVING IT!!!!!
I have been so busy school starts in just a few days. Classrooms look AWESOME, Teachers have all their lessons planned, Everything is clean and new. After such an intense week of trainings, seminars, lectures, and room set ups our most WONDERFUL boss has decided to take us all the a resort on Sunday for lunch and cocktails by the pool. I can't wait!!!!! It will be nice to relax and chill wit my coworkers for a few until all our students return.
Well yesterday was the final signing of our Divorce papers and I must say I HIT A HOME RUN!!!! He tried to argue every little detail but I stood up and didn't let him get away with shit. After awhile he realized that any attempt to argue was wasted because he was going to lose. He agreed to Sole Legal Custody, Sole Physical Custody he just wants his visitations and I did a good job splitting up Holidays. The other issue he tried to get out of was paying my spousal support. He wanted it stopped if I meet someone and move in with them. I said ok if when you meet someone and move in with her I can then use her income as part of yours and get more support. It's kind of a double edge sword it goes both ways. In the end he said never mind I will keep paying until she gets re married. There were a few more things here and there like taxes who claims Austin he said she can claim him every year since he lives with her most of the time.
So everything went my way and I thought I would be a little happier but i'm just feeling kind of DONE. Ya know that feeling of whatever I just don't want to care about it anymore. Then on the car ride home he text me telling me how amazing I looked and how beautiful I am and how could he le me go. Then he said maybe in the future we will realize we just wasted alot of money and time. I didn't respond but I did think about why he said that 10 minutes after we signed our papers???
Well yesterday was the final signing of our Divorce papers and I must say I HIT A HOME RUN!!!! He tried to argue every little detail but I stood up and didn't let him get away with shit. After awhile he realized that any attempt to argue was wasted because he was going to lose. He agreed to Sole Legal Custody, Sole Physical Custody he just wants his visitations and I did a good job splitting up Holidays. The other issue he tried to get out of was paying my spousal support. He wanted it stopped if I meet someone and move in with them. I said ok if when you meet someone and move in with her I can then use her income as part of yours and get more support. It's kind of a double edge sword it goes both ways. In the end he said never mind I will keep paying until she gets re married. There were a few more things here and there like taxes who claims Austin he said she can claim him every year since he lives with her most of the time.
So everything went my way and I thought I would be a little happier but i'm just feeling kind of DONE. Ya know that feeling of whatever I just don't want to care about it anymore. Then on the car ride home he text me telling me how amazing I looked and how beautiful I am and how could he le me go. Then he said maybe in the future we will realize we just wasted alot of money and time. I didn't respond but I did think about why he said that 10 minutes after we signed our papers???
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