estranged from adult daughter

dear everyone who is reading this,
 
      Its great to find a place I can put my thoughts and feelings down to. I just miss my 39 year old daughter. It's been about 5 months we have not spoken....of course its a long story, and it really started since she got married. That would be about 10 years ago. 
      So it feels like some days like I have a hole in my heart, missing my grand babies and my daughter all at once feels very sad. I have allot going on in my life,,,,so thank goodness for my work, home and friends. 
     When the last rift occurred around august 10th, I realized my daughter had changed in a very negative way; I did not know that person who stood in front of me yelling (once again) what a terrible person I am, and on and on with all her blaming points. I realized that there was nothing more I could do ......I stopped talking, stopped fixing it, stopped apologizing, and I just walked away. And from that day on ...I have not heard from her. I know in my heart that was the right thing to do. 
     I am looking forward to getting to know others on this site, Im trying to figure it out....
I hope I can get on the estranged parents support group. 
 
I wish everyone a good friday........
 
 
 

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JOYHOLY
JOYHOLY

HELLO SO SORRY NO ONE HAS RESPONDED, JOIN THE GROUPS, ITS SAD THA TYOU HAD TO WALK AWAY BUT FAMILY MEMBERS CHANGE AND SOMETIME WE HAVE TO DO WHAAT BEST FOR OUR OWN HEALTH AND PEACE, BE STRONG ,YOU HAVE SUPPORT AND THAT ITS A BLESSING, LOVE **