Erica.... Ugh

Lincoln called me a Douche cause he wasnt getting is way. Erica just got home and I was telling her what happened and then she said he could say that word and its no different then me going in my room and being pissed off. Um, ya, it really is different he said it to my fucking face and I told her now he is gonna think its okay. And then he said it again and she said "lincold, no we dont say that". Bruh wtf?

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CaliforniaItalianlover
CaliforniaItalianlover

Tell him that's very disrespectful and you don't appreciate being called that.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

He doesn't care. He wants to hurt me feelings and make me mad. He does it all the time
CaliforniaItalianlover
CaliforniaItalianlover

Then just ignore him and don't say anything back to him.

He's just trying to make you mad. The best response is no response. Trust me it gets them everytime.

Then they know they can't get ya.

Hugs
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

I will try
hasty_05
hasty_05

We always have a choice whether to get angry or not get angry. We can react with anger or respond thoughtfully. Some people are what is called high conflict people and arguing with them over name calling gets no where. They refuse to be thoughtful or logical and maybe he faces the same family stress that you do. Erica doesn't want to mediate between you two or she prefers the boys, who knows.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

Oh, she favorites Lincoln and its so obvious