End of vacation

Havent been on in awhile to write anything. But I guess things are improving. Long story short, I ended up standing my ground and didn't see her Monday because of how she was acting and what she wanted. We got in a pretty big fight, but things are still ok between us.
I have come to realize that mopeing around all day feeling sorry for myself isn't going to help me get her back, and it won't help me get over her. It is just going to make me feel worse about everything. So I decided I am going to improve myself, I am going to try to be less irritable, nicer, and I'm even going to go to the gym every day now to try to put on some muscle. I figured I wouldn't earn her back by just sitting around doing nothing. If I can improve myself then maybe she will take me back if thats what I decide that I want at that time, if not then I will be better off in my next relationship. I guess I'm feeling pretty good and pretty optimistic.

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drwho546
drwho546

OOOO wat u did was just COOOL on mon

and hell yeah I feel all sux when i feel sorry for my self...less irritable is Surely better...but less nicer...lol I dont think that u can change that part of your personality lol...MUSCLES are HOT...and ur soo right...do it for ur self...if she behaved then things will be cool other wise I am SURE that there will be some other HOT chick waiting for u to be her charmin prince!

seriously I am soo happy to hear the news :)
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear

I am glad you didn\'t see her and stood your ground.

I say, you work to improve yourself, grow in to the man you want to be so not to get her back, but to live a happy life and bring someone in it that compliments you and will reward you with all they can give as you also give to them.
Wk22
Wk22

That was sort of my philosophy. I wanted to improve myself to be better next time, whatever that may be. At this point I doubt it would be with her, but she sort of motivates me
drwho546
drwho546

thats just sweeeeet....good luck boy!