emptied out richard's mobile//breakfast at mom/pop//lunch with j//library booksale
i'm at the library looking for a book called amish christmas about two babies switched at birth and they find out when they are 30 and try to know their real roots.
had a long day. michele is still holding on. but still very ill. have no idea how to fix this. grrrr. if i can...as the anemia thing has always persisted, normally she is okay anyway. i still keep thinking i should wash off the revolution....
went to the mobile to get the cat, ana, and the last of the stuff there and strangers from the park were already going at it pulling things out. i called mr to let her know and she says she knew. i pointed out her cash register and the boxes of shoes (all new) from her shop are still there in one of the closets. totally don't understand her, i know she is dealing with a lot of losses, but she definitely put herself in this position and has done very little to get herself out of it. what's sickening is legally most of the money she spent actually belongs to her stepdaughter from inheritance from her father, mr DEFINITELY knew that half the money was supposed to go to his two kids. (mr and her step daughter aren't speaking to each other over the money thing for about two years now. the stepdaughter should have sued mr. what a mess that is.) she also has the funeral this week. when it rains it pours.
i packed up mr's stuff for her and dropped it at her other mobile and her neighbors wanted to know why she and michael haven't let them know the funeral arrangements. got me. this half of life really sucks anyway. too much death to deal with even if the health thing is okay and health is scary because at any second it can be something else.
the boys, the owners 20 year old sons from the park, two of them, were very nice and offered to carry things out and all that. i also got mr money on the mobile and the lot rents owed i had him waive it (its like $3000) (she never lived in this thing, its a whole saga because of her business partner's husband never getting the thing repaired, a total waste. she should demand the money from him. she would never listen when this was happening. i warned her about this last winter, i was like he isn't getting any work done. she bought this as a flip, instead she lost money on it - a few thousand, i think about 7,000). she didn't even call to let me know if she had problems cashing the check from the park or what? then if it goes bad, she tells you waaaay after and its too late to fix it. i have a bad habit of doing "told you so" with her, but the stuff she does is so dumb (k thinks she is losing the money on purpose so if her stepdaughter takes her to court, she can say she doesn't have it). her stepdaughter can put a lien on the house she owns now, but i don't think mr comprehends that either, or just doesn't care. she takes prozac and that drug makes you not care about things.
russ came over to get the remainder of the records. the cat was hiding in a cupboard, this cat does that all the time. dreading this cat being at our house as she doesn't like sharing, which is why richard had her. went to the mom and pop for breakfast, always perfect. nice and quiet there today, for a change. the horses next door were outside -- amazing they can have horses on a main road -- have to remember to bring apples next time, the palomino comes right up to you to be petted. the mom and pop also offer an italian platter which is an array of sampler italian foods that i want to try - odd thing to offer in a small place like that, but you never know.
went to arby's for lunch with j. haven't done that in a long time and then to a booksale at the library. also fell asleep in the car for a bit, much needed, my plan was to sleep at the mobile, but couldn't with all the people there working on it. they also had to chop up the loveseat from belk's to get it through the slider. isn't there a way to do that? the original tag was in it, $88 from 20 years ago. lol.
had a long day. michele is still holding on. but still very ill. have no idea how to fix this. grrrr. if i can...as the anemia thing has always persisted, normally she is okay anyway. i still keep thinking i should wash off the revolution....
went to the mobile to get the cat, ana, and the last of the stuff there and strangers from the park were already going at it pulling things out. i called mr to let her know and she says she knew. i pointed out her cash register and the boxes of shoes (all new) from her shop are still there in one of the closets. totally don't understand her, i know she is dealing with a lot of losses, but she definitely put herself in this position and has done very little to get herself out of it. what's sickening is legally most of the money she spent actually belongs to her stepdaughter from inheritance from her father, mr DEFINITELY knew that half the money was supposed to go to his two kids. (mr and her step daughter aren't speaking to each other over the money thing for about two years now. the stepdaughter should have sued mr. what a mess that is.) she also has the funeral this week. when it rains it pours.
i packed up mr's stuff for her and dropped it at her other mobile and her neighbors wanted to know why she and michael haven't let them know the funeral arrangements. got me. this half of life really sucks anyway. too much death to deal with even if the health thing is okay and health is scary because at any second it can be something else.
the boys, the owners 20 year old sons from the park, two of them, were very nice and offered to carry things out and all that. i also got mr money on the mobile and the lot rents owed i had him waive it (its like $3000) (she never lived in this thing, its a whole saga because of her business partner's husband never getting the thing repaired, a total waste. she should demand the money from him. she would never listen when this was happening. i warned her about this last winter, i was like he isn't getting any work done. she bought this as a flip, instead she lost money on it - a few thousand, i think about 7,000). she didn't even call to let me know if she had problems cashing the check from the park or what? then if it goes bad, she tells you waaaay after and its too late to fix it. i have a bad habit of doing "told you so" with her, but the stuff she does is so dumb (k thinks she is losing the money on purpose so if her stepdaughter takes her to court, she can say she doesn't have it). her stepdaughter can put a lien on the house she owns now, but i don't think mr comprehends that either, or just doesn't care. she takes prozac and that drug makes you not care about things.
russ came over to get the remainder of the records. the cat was hiding in a cupboard, this cat does that all the time. dreading this cat being at our house as she doesn't like sharing, which is why richard had her. went to the mom and pop for breakfast, always perfect. nice and quiet there today, for a change. the horses next door were outside -- amazing they can have horses on a main road -- have to remember to bring apples next time, the palomino comes right up to you to be petted. the mom and pop also offer an italian platter which is an array of sampler italian foods that i want to try - odd thing to offer in a small place like that, but you never know.
went to arby's for lunch with j. haven't done that in a long time and then to a booksale at the library. also fell asleep in the car for a bit, much needed, my plan was to sleep at the mobile, but couldn't with all the people there working on it. they also had to chop up the loveseat from belk's to get it through the slider. isn't there a way to do that? the original tag was in it, $88 from 20 years ago. lol.
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You are busy and busier. So I guess you are feeling better.
Can\'t imagine horses so near a business and road. Oh yes, do take those carrots and apples to them.
Lots of things going on now with the Mobile and I pray Michele will get better. Love U
michele died. i didn\'t put up her rip yet. i am back to thinking its the revolution that did it. i wish i had weighed her. but would it help? the directions say 5 - 15 pounds .75, i now changed the chart to .65 to be on the safe side. better to add more later, it won\'t help michele, and i don\'t know if that is what did it. odd coincidence if its not and two others losing fur by the tail also....i\'m stunned. k says it could be a bad batch of revolution. want to run this passed rm as sammy died, and she used the same batch of revolution on her animals. however, the rest are fine?
want to seriously look into adding garlic to the food and getting the other natural one and see if it works....the natural cat book is against all the toxic chemicals. i should have washed it off on monday...don\'t know if it would help...i thought of it...but with big i did a wash and big died in november they are brother and sister and seemingly it was an attack by a raccoon that i didn\'t know about (should have been on antibiotic if that happens and kept indoors to heal etc....).
for seven years i have taken care of those crippled hypoplasia cats. i have heard michele crying daily and always needy, has to be right there. she had enough energy to put herself on the bed. then i think how sick could she be to climb up there? but still she died? i\'m so confused. i keep rolling it over and trying to figure it out.
i get to jacuzzi and v is there and says, her cocker spaniel died of the same thing, she used a sentry product and the next day her dog was dead. no other symptoms. white gums. i say that is flea anemia or anemia. white gums. they tell you so little with all of this.
if i were a stranger and called i\'d say, wash the animal in baby shampoo leave lather on for ten minutes wash off and feed milk or kmr...i only didn\'t because i still saw fleas and normally revolution gets EVERYTHING gone. no matter what you are wrong...that\'s how it feels. if i had washed her, like i did with big, i\'d think washing her was wrong and killed her. i wondered that with big. then i don\'t wash and i think, oh, not washing was wrong and i should have....how do doctors live with themselves everytime something goes wrong....i couldn\'t. glad i\'m not a doctor. r.i.p michele. today is wednesday, i buried her tuesday morning. it never stops.
now my thinking is i should have packed up michele on tuesday and brought her to the jacuzzi thing and then to k\'s along with formula to feed her. and then flea bathed her at k\'s. he is set up for that there, and i\'m not. he even has the separate heater thing. the problem, if she died then, i would think its from the bathing it off....so glad i\'m not a doctor, because you feel like no matter what you choose its wrong, how do they live with themselves?