Emotions...lost of a beautiful girl friend/boy friend
I had a real close relationship with a beautiful and understanding girl friend who wanted to become a man. I don't know how it happened but we just seem to "hit it off" and were attracted to each other. I have never experienced anything like this before and it was wonderful.
She (he) has found another girl and appears not to have feelings for me anymore. It hurts knowing I am losing her and don't know what to do. Living as a girl now has been confusing enough but to have found someone who I love and now losing her is something I don't know how to handle. I never thought I would ever have this happen to me.
I don't know if this has ever happened to anyone else. If so; I need your help and advice.
Please help me.
She (he) has found another girl and appears not to have feelings for me anymore. It hurts knowing I am losing her and don't know what to do. Living as a girl now has been confusing enough but to have found someone who I love and now losing her is something I don't know how to handle. I never thought I would ever have this happen to me.
I don't know if this has ever happened to anyone else. If so; I need your help and advice.
Please help me.
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All I can say is people care we all want to share our journey of life with someone special it took me quite a few trys with both men and woman before I got it right. I had a lot of pain just like what you are seeing in the process. I celebrate 30 years of marriage this month with an amazing woman . Hang in there it will be OK, Mark
i so sorry she found someone else hun. It does happen, all to often. To me it has happened a few times. It hurts for a while but eventually we move past it, forget the pain remember the good times and find someone new. In the mean time, friends can be a wonderful way of helping, especially close ones that you can really let go to. I am always willing to help if you need to talk just send me a message if i am not on :D
Sometimes things happen for a reason Stacy. I know exactly how you feel. Even though our situations are different about transgendered and what not. when i was left alone i totally lost myself...I wasn\'t the normal me. But getting back to you, it will take time until you feel better. You will find that special person that truly loves you,and understands you. Take it one day at a time my friend .
im here for u
long time no talk sis,please dont be sad the learing is just beginning there is true and wonderful love out there for you, this is the start of the journey to find it. it is there and it will be yours i promise. big squishty hugs my friend. love you xx
This happens more often than not. But remember, it has nothing to do with you, okay? So do not take it personally. People change their minds all the time, it hurts but it needs not to devastate you.
Concentrate in your own journey, love yourself as you are and continue.
Heal the wounds and look forward to better days ahead.
Many hugs,
Wolf
It takes time. The pain will lessen as time goes on and then one day you\'ll realize \"it doesn\'t hurt anymore to think of him/her.\" Being transgender makes this no more painful than any other situation. From experience I can tell you that a broken heart is a broken heart. I loss a BF, I am bipolar. I thought being bipolar made me undesirable. Not true. I moved on to bigger and better things. You wil too. :)
thinking of you hon, hugs.
I\'ve had a few that I have love and lost as well. I know it hurts now, but it will get better hon. Hugs
i;m here no matter what
Im sorry hon... I know It sucks to hear... but some trans guys break up with their partners... not because they dont love them but because they want to start fresh with someone that never saw them as a female...
Hugs I think the journey of life is trying to lead you to something better! Things fall apart so better things fall together!
May life shed lite on you and heal your heart time and patience but be true to who you are no matter what inside beauty with stands outside you are who beautiful hugs lol ...my heart goes out to to you
I personally wasn\'t attracted to someone anymore, so I can tell you that he probably felt awful knowing I wasn\'t attracted to him. But now I found the man of my dreams. He\'s told me i am the sexiest girl in his eyes, and they he loves me. If he ever fell out of love with me, IDK what I\'d do, because I\'ve got emotionally close to him.
I fell for my only trans partner badly, We connected so well it was like nothing I had experienced before, Same thing, she found a man and is now engaged, It hurts a lot, I understand your feelings. It hurts deep inside the chest. There is another out there for you sweetie, be strong they will find you :)