emotional and verbal abuse
I don't know what to do anymore. I can't take it anymore!!! Every day my son calls me "stupic, bitch, crazy, psychotic", he tells me to "shut-up, fuck you, fuck off, piss off and the worst I Don't care". I can't stand it anymore, it's every day. He accuses me of yelling when I'm not. He is just completely out of control. He is almost 20 years old and still sitting in his room playing video games.
I unpluged his game from my computor the other day and he lost it. He threw everything off of the top of my armour. Make up, nail stuff, hair stuff and my medicines. He's over 6 ft. and about 200 lbs., he scares me. I know hye would hit me if I tried to take the gae away.
I am totally lost here. thIS IS WORSE THAN THE ABUSE MY HUSBAND DISHED OUT. i'S MY SON!!!! hIS FATHER HAS NEVER BEEN THERE FOR HIM. iT'S ALWAYS BEEN ME TAKING CARE OF EVERYTHING. i bring him a sport drink every day. WHen we were in california I brought him a candy bar everyday. I always make sure he has what he and what he wants. He doesn't go with out anything. Why does he hate me so much?
That's what hurts the most ....my baby , the protected child, is now my abuser. It's killing me inside. What do I do?
I unpluged his game from my computor the other day and he lost it. He threw everything off of the top of my armour. Make up, nail stuff, hair stuff and my medicines. He's over 6 ft. and about 200 lbs., he scares me. I know hye would hit me if I tried to take the gae away.
I am totally lost here. thIS IS WORSE THAN THE ABUSE MY HUSBAND DISHED OUT. i'S MY SON!!!! hIS FATHER HAS NEVER BEEN THERE FOR HIM. iT'S ALWAYS BEEN ME TAKING CARE OF EVERYTHING. i bring him a sport drink every day. WHen we were in california I brought him a candy bar everyday. I always make sure he has what he and what he wants. He doesn't go with out anything. Why does he hate me so much?
That's what hurts the most ....my baby , the protected child, is now my abuser. It's killing me inside. What do I do?
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Oh, this just breaks my heart. Your son is an adult now & able to make it on his own. As a mom, we accept our child\'s behavior, but if it was a stranger we wouldn\'t. It seems as if your son is not happy with his life and is taking it out on you. Is there anyway that you can sit down with him, explain that this abuse has to stop, or he needs to move out? Can you give him an ultimatum? This situation isn\'t good for you or him or your dad.
Wish I could come to your house with my marine buddies and have a little chat with your boy! LOL!
Sending hugs of support.