Embie Update & Quick Rant

I heard from my RE today - we have 2 good quality embies that made it to the freezing stage!!! I think these are called frosties now? Or is that when they are thawed? Still learning some of the IVF lingo :) Sadly, my 3rd little embie never made it - I was hoping it would fight but it just never developed. But, I'm going to focus on the positive that given my age and my mini protocol, we managed to get 4 eggs and 2 embies. Not to mention, we are a lot further in this IF battle than we've ever been before, and that progress gives me hope. I've decided I will be cautiously optimistic. I think we are going to do another mini cycle right away and see if we can get more embies to freeze before I do my gallbladder surgery. If all goes well, we might be able to transfer in June.
And on an entirely separate note, I have a quick rant about something that annoyed me that I figured I might as well share here...I know you ladies will probably understand and not judge this :) So quick backstory: my brother in law recently got engaged and he and his fiance are soooo into having kids, its pretty much all they talk about, which I'm ashamed to say, annoys the crap out of me. They talk about "when" and have it all on a time schedule as if they have control over this. I find it super annoying because, hello, as we all know, it doesn't freaking work that way!!! (well, maybe for some women). Anyway, I try and ignore this because I can get myself too worked up. But, they are getting married this year and I already know they will be trying immediately (I have heard all about their plans with their kids). DH and I have kept our immediate families in the loop with our IF struggles, they all know we've been TTC for over 2 years, had 3 failed IUIs and much sadness. Yesterday I was emailing with my sister in law, who I love to tears, she is awesome, but she mentioned in her email that she is saving clothes (she has a girl and boy - the sweetest, most precious niece and nephew that I adore) for me and my other future sister in law...ugh. Now, this might sound like a no big deal comment, she is only being generous afterall, but somehow this comment got under my skin. I told DH that if my future SIL gets pregnant before us, the shits gonna hit the fan for me. I realize I either sound a bit unbalanced here, or I just sound like a woman suffering from IF. The sad thing is that people who don't suffer from IF hardly ever "get it" and probably just think I'm being a bitch if I talk this way outside of DS.