dysfunctional behavior
why do I keep making stupid mistakes and then end up feeling like crap afterwards!!!!my ex husband use to call me a stupid whore, nice if we make that mistake once that doesnt make us a whore.... ok I am trying to convince myself....why do I always find these guys that treat me like crap don't I deserve better? if someone likes you then you shouldnt have to chase them.... ok I am going to listen to my song and then go to bed...... hopefully sleeping will come more easier!!!!
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I hope you are doing okay. I think it is something in us that makes us attracted to this type of man, and that is something we have to work on ourselves. I am the same way; I always like those who treat me badly. I ask myself every day, every year, every relationship why I do that. I don\'t have an answer, except that it must be something in my psyche? Anyway, whatever it is that you do that you think is a \"stupid mistake\" is not that at all. It is what you know, and if you think it is wrong, change it, learn from it, but don\'t label it. You are a smart and sensible woman. Always remember that!
I agree with Jacksmom555.
You do deserve a lot beter an dyou are not a stupid whore for one little mistake! You are not a bad person at all you ar a wonderful person and just becaus some guy tells you that you are doesnt mean its true! Rifleman is right you know what to not look for and the cycle can be broken! I know it can I am proof of that! I came from an abusive dad to BF\'s to a husband and now I have someone that no matter how tired or late it is he always calls to talk to me for an hour (even when he is falling asleep on the phone!) so the cycle can be broken. Choose wisely and if you see or feel any fear or neglect drop him quickly and move on! And dont stay just cause you dont want to be alone, youwill find the kind man of your life I know it!