Dreams
Hey everyone. I want to discuss my dreaming pattern in here and see what you gu ys think of it. Now be warned... they are.... sexual in nature, so if you aren't old enough to read this leave freakin... NOW! (Worth a try, I know they won't but hey.. I tried) Ok here goes: For the past few weeks Ive been dreaming about sex, and not just your grandmother's version of it, but some really... -purrs- excitable stuff. Like last night/ this morning I was awoken because I was dreaming that I was involved in a group of people who consentually just had a great old time!! Course I guess my mind is a little better than even that, and instead of running off with one of the men involved.. I chose a woman. -shrug- I'm bisexual so no big hoopla there. It was her looks that stunned me. She was around a size 14-16 woman, dark hair, i dont remember what color eyes (sorry) Stunning! I kept getting mental snapshots of me going down on her, and her doing the same for me. -sigh- Only to wake up and discover she wasn't there. :-( So I would go back to sleep and it would alternate. This time I would be with a guy, but not just one.. The guys had me handcuffed, and were lets just say God was kind to them when passing out the penis to them. One of them was standing in front of me getting head, while the other was trying to come out of my mouth and I LOVED it. -doesnt know what to feel now, thanks to abusive history- BUt here's what gets me... I'm getting booty on a regular basis, so why is it then that my mind sees fit to give me all these sexual dreams?
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Hmmm well im kinda envious of your dreams. I wouldnt worry about them too much, just enjoy them. If your current sex life is a bit bland try spicing it up some.
I have weird sex dreams as well. And my bf and I make love on a regular babsis. I just enjoy the dreams b/c they\'re always so great. :)
But don\'t ignore them completly your dreams could be your subconscious talking to you. Maybe in bed you wish things were a lot different. Like maybe your dreams are how you wish things were in reality. That\'s what someone told me when I told them about my dreams. Only you would know how true that is. Just be true to yourself when asnwering this question though. No one but you has to know your answer.
I think it can be normal. My husband has had sexual dreams on a regular basis for 23 years. Very vivid and detailed and he goes on and on like he was real busy all night instead of sleeping and I\'m like Dude I just woke up slow down. lol
idk...i suppose it is healthy to have sexual dreams, right? i\'m jealous! mine are always just about stuff i\'m worried about!
hmm wow. So I\'m not absolutely abnormal. Thats great to know. Can some of you guys tell me of some of the stuff you dream (so that I don\'t feel so alone)
I think that some of that may be wish fullfilment. That could be. Some things you would never do in real life but your subconcious wants to take for a ride. Mishka.
Well, if you\'ve been getting a maybe booty maybe its just your labido on hyper drive? Lol. Here are some useful definitions you may or may not find helpful:
Oral Sex
To dream that you are giving or receiving oral sex, signifies your willingness to give or receive pleasure/joy.? It is symbolic of your creative energy and reaffirms that you are headed in the right direction in life.? The dream may also be a pun on talking about sex. You may need to communicate with your mate about your sexual needs and desires. Perhaps you are acting out your sexual wishes.
Sex:
To dream that you are having sex with an ex or something that is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself or currently feel a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together.?
Don\'t know why your getting these dreams, but I wouldn\'t mind reading about the next one. Hehehe. I don\'t know much about intreptaion of dreams, but it sounds like your wanting/needing more sex. Maybe you should find a swingers club in your area and check it out.