Does anyone else agree?

So just wondering.... I'm glad that Don't Ask Don't Tell has been repealed.. but out of all the Gay and Lesbian things i feel they should of worked on something more important...
Like
-Marriage
-Partner's benefits and rights
-Child care if one partner dies etc...
Just a random thought... i haven't really looked into the above... but i mean really repealing don't ask don't tell just makes me feel like nothing will change... it's not like they are going to put a box (or i hope not) on an militant application saying are you Straight
Gay
Bisexual
Lesbian 
Transgender 
and i know some people even who are in the military already are going to come out and just be like guess what guys i'm gay! cause of what it can lead to you know?...
What do you think?