disappointed

Well -  T isn't using but if he keeps up this old familiar behavior.  I am so disappointed in him.  I will just have to take a deep breath and hold it until he turns 18.  Yesterday he was supposed to come home for dinner.  He never showed up until 9PM.  His excuse was that he was on probation and house arrest and now that he has his freedom - he has his freedom.  Yesterday he was supposed to e-mail a paper to himself but forgot.  My husband was going to do it this morning for him.  I said NO - that T had to do it himself.  Well, T's ride came for him for breakfast and he didn't have time.  He asked me to do it and I said no.  He had plenty of time before getting into his friend's car.  She could have waited a few minutes. Well - he swore at me and called me all kinds of names.  I refuse to enable him and to be treated this way.  It would have been easy to send it for him but after the way he behaved - sorry.  And I foolishly thought - hoped - that he may have shown some maturity.  It was a show to get off of house arrest, I guess.