dinner at k's//talked to rn and br and s - another surprise//timeshare sauna

FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 8, 2013
talked to rn and told her about michele and the problem with revolution.  i'm never using .75 of revolution on any smaller animal again.  talked to br about the land and he won't do it, he's "foot loose and fancy free" and wants to go on long gambling trips two times per year.  i told him i'd cover the taxes and insurance on it and he said no.  so now its up to rn.  right now she has a cold.  have to do something with the land thing.  
k needs to switch to holistic food for his cats, two of them have skin disorders.  had dinner at k's this week, he attempted to make steak bernaise, which i loved at one of those publix things and saved the recipe.  being k, he didn't follow the recipe at all, though it was all prepared beautifully and ready to serve, just heat before i got there, and i got there early, i'm really working on that.  he bought rib-eyes, instead of the potato fluff or whatever its called he made potato pancakes and instead of creme with bernaise, he served it straight which you can't do, as bernaise sauce (to me) is like horseradish, it has to be cut with something.  he always plays with recipes.  and then the steak is cut into strips and with creamed spinach.  it was good anyway, but not at all the recipe.  when i went in the kitchen to get the italian torta (he left two slices and ate the rest from last week.  lol he likes it better than edwards, but i don't).  the dogs (who are small and only weigh about 13 pounds each, a cairn terrier and a chihuahua/cairn) jumped onto the table and ate the entire other half of my plate.  grrrr. 
rg was there and in better spirits, and brought pasta alfredo with chicken as it was tuscany night at pizza hut, its actually decent.  k bought chevis regal so i think the "ban" of alcohol is over - it didn't last even a day. 
finished reading "the mid-wife's apprentice" which i totally LOVED.  now i'm a fan and want to take out all of her books and start looking for them to buy them at booksales.  also went to timeshare sauna.  yay!
still freaked out over michele's death, i don't think i get over death.  i end up with day and night mares from it instead.  also spoke to s, which is rare and will have to be written elsewhere.  that is mostly about the "party of nine" saga, if you have ever seen the show "party of five" and fth leaving for sorbonne.  kwl.  the rest is too much to put on here.  boy, is all of that a roller coaster.  and i shut down as soon as anything becomes a drama, that whole flight thing kicks in.  how do people live with constant drama.  no thanks.  handling it from far away is mostly do-able as long as its not all the time.   
and the last of it was dustin blames e for what happened on the mainland with jodif.  that is her grandson.  he said e lies so much and then there is always a disaster from her lies and his grandfather would be gone from there had he known all this was going on 20 years ago when they married.  e lied to gwen and others and they were BRINGING animals to the girl in the back because e told them that was where i live?  WHAT?!  there is NO WAY E thought that.  he said gwen was sobbing saying WHY did you say that?  recently she lied about molly the cat, who was adopted by a neighbor and was never really up for adoption....she acts whacko with stuff like that.  she never worked in her mother's hair salon because she steals, but she did work the school system.  wonder who went to jail for e's evil deeds.  so much blood on her hands.  bud says she does it for attention and doesn't think or care about the consequences or who gets hurt at all.  amazing.  her mother wasn't like that at all.  she is a hard working person so its stunning that she is also like this.  her latest is forging a signature on a check that belongs to someone else and trying to deposit it in her account.  if she wasn't BORN here and white and female she would and should be in jail even with saying she is sorry.  its whacko.  usually when we have banking things its the tellers in a bank forging, transferring and stealing or even their managers.  never would have suspected e, though if her mother was here she would say, boy, do you not know e.  she is very quiet and soft spoken, i guess as a way to hide it all the time, and does the sniffle thing when she gets with this is uppity or this is so low, that thing.  so now a check has to be re-issued and from what bud said its all happened before including her dipping into other people's mail.  though she claims she "wouldn't do that."   really?  i felt like i was talking to a total stranger.  he says don't let her quiet voice fool you, she is total trouble. 
so dustin moved.  i thought he moved because his father had a heart attack, but its not just that, its the rest of it.  he says he can't stand that she is always lying and she does it automatically, like it never occurred to her to tell the truth.  deadly e can't be trusted.