diffrent stages of beeing married???????

I swear there is diffrent stages you go through after you get married! I went through the omg shes cheating on me stage. Omg we are distance stage. The OMG what was i thinking stage Now to the Omg i finally figured marriage out stage. I know it sounds crazy. People might say im too young to know what i want. Ive been a lesbian since i was 16 out and open! I believe i know i want a woman and i dated juanita for 5 years she propose many times during those years but i made damn sure it was the right time and the right thing for me. Instead of questioning things everyday Ive just started living my life by my marriage vows. When we are together im cherishing her and loving her. When were not together im being faithful. When she was sick at 4:30 this morning i was helping her it says in sickness and in health. We went by the tradional marriage vows because we both have a strong relationship with god and marriage wouldnt work with out god a part of it. But along with the traditonal vows we wrote our own. Im just so glad to be done questioning it and just go by my marriage vows. Im hoping soon ill just be able to live life and not think about being married all the time i think im still in the omg im married really married to someone i love stage which isnt really a bad stage at all. So this is how i conclued marriage has diffrent stages! :)