Deposit down
so today I put a deposit on a small nice brick home for the kids and I... the co-living is so much harder than I could have ever expected. I suppose..I had hopes two weeks ago that things would change and he would come out of this MLC but as I try as hard as I can to prove my worth to him he continues to use me to benefit himself ... the lies are in full flow now... he is not aware of the things I know now. The things that make you stop breathing and hurt while you catch your breath.
i pray it gives me the strength I need to be the strong single mom I will need to be
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Hope you can resist the impulse to make *his* problems about you. At this point, he is the one who needs to prove himself to you if the relationship is to move on with health enough to be good for children.
Hope the new home helps you and the kids build a great new life. Be patient with the process.
I commend you for your strength and courage to get your own place !!! I hope to find the same eventually.