Dear Neil
I'm sorry it has to be this way but I just can't keep in touch with your family. I hope you can understand why. I went to the funeral yesterday and they didnt tell the vicar to mention your daughter, only your son. None of them spoke 2 words to me when we were there, only your friend and his wife, they were the only decent ones to me and I don't even know them.
Then at the wake, your family all sat at the same table and left me and my friend on the other table. They didnt speak a word to me there eithe, unless they had to. Your family has a problem with me for some reason and Im sorry but Ido not wish for them to contact me again. Your sister only spoke to me to mention going to our place for some things and accusingly mentioned that your silver ring that you 'always wore' was missing. Accusingly! And she didnt forget to mention that it was silver either. Then your other sister had to sneak in a comment that your son shouldnt have been allowed to come to get some of your things without them.
I am so sorry Neil but they are like vultures, they want all your valuables, they wanted them before you were even buried. They don't care about any of the sentimental things, they only want things of value. They also said I don't know you as well as they do, well Im sorry but I think I know you pretty darn well considering we lived together for over a year. They don't like the fact that I was your closest friend and you chose to spend your last weeks with me rather than them. They have hurt me so much, and they are adding to my grief, so for now I would not like to speak with them more than I need to.
Darlng you will be reeling in your grave right now, they excluded your daughter, wouldnt even tell her where and when your funeral was. I am livid over this honey but I have took some stuff that is special to you to give to your daughter because no matter what was said or dne she deserves something from her dad, and she had as much right to be at your funeral as they did. They think they know you but you must have changed since the last time you saw them because they ddnt know much about what you are like over the past year. Im so sorry, they just make me feel so inadequate and I felt so unwelcome yesterday, I don't need the extra heartach. Sleep well honey.
Love Emz
xx
Then at the wake, your family all sat at the same table and left me and my friend on the other table. They didnt speak a word to me there eithe, unless they had to. Your family has a problem with me for some reason and Im sorry but Ido not wish for them to contact me again. Your sister only spoke to me to mention going to our place for some things and accusingly mentioned that your silver ring that you 'always wore' was missing. Accusingly! And she didnt forget to mention that it was silver either. Then your other sister had to sneak in a comment that your son shouldnt have been allowed to come to get some of your things without them.
I am so sorry Neil but they are like vultures, they want all your valuables, they wanted them before you were even buried. They don't care about any of the sentimental things, they only want things of value. They also said I don't know you as well as they do, well Im sorry but I think I know you pretty darn well considering we lived together for over a year. They don't like the fact that I was your closest friend and you chose to spend your last weeks with me rather than them. They have hurt me so much, and they are adding to my grief, so for now I would not like to speak with them more than I need to.
Darlng you will be reeling in your grave right now, they excluded your daughter, wouldnt even tell her where and when your funeral was. I am livid over this honey but I have took some stuff that is special to you to give to your daughter because no matter what was said or dne she deserves something from her dad, and she had as much right to be at your funeral as they did. They think they know you but you must have changed since the last time you saw them because they ddnt know much about what you are like over the past year. Im so sorry, they just make me feel so inadequate and I felt so unwelcome yesterday, I don't need the extra heartach. Sleep well honey.
Love Emz
xx
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Keep your Faith honey, it is only the evil one trying to grab it away from you by using others to make you angry and hurt.
Do not dwell on what others say or do, only put Jesus in the place of your worried thoughts.
Our time here is always Judged by God and to be able to be with Him when we do leave this earth is the most important thing you must dwell on.
When you feel like others are taking advantage or hurting you just give it to God, let HIm be the ultimate Judge (Because He is).
Sirach 17: 18
God Is Judge
15 The Lord is always aware of what people do; there is no way to hide from him.[d]17 He gave each nation its own ruler, but Israel is the Lord\'s own possession.[e]19 The Lord is always watching what people do; everything they do is as clear as day to him.20 None of their sins are hidden from him; he is aware of them all.[f]22 When we give to the poor, the Lord considers it as precious as a valuable ring. Human kindness is as precious to him as life itself.23 Later he will judge the wicked and punish them; they will get what they deserve.24 But the Lord will allow those who repent to return to him. He always gives encouragement to those who are losing hope.
I am still praying for you sweet one,
Your friend,
Judy